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serena6878
Feb 12, 2009, 01:18 AM
He says he loves me.
When we had a chance to spend the weekend with each other, we made out in a motel but he didn't have sex because he was afraid I got pregnant.
He texts me good morning and good night every day.
He said when he graduates, he would work near to my school and find an apartment nearby to live. And he also said I could visit him.
He said he wish he could be with me.
He said he dated several girls, but he never had sex before.
When the first time I saw him, I thought he was a cool and mature man. But later, I feel he is not that mature.
He talks to his mom every day on the phone.
He is twenty two.
He tells me if we are patient to each other and commit to each other, it will work out.
He would like to kiss me in public.
He calls me every day.
He introduced me to his mom, and his mom respects me a lot.
We haven't been far in our relationship.
And we have been in a relationship for three months.
Thank you for reading. What do you think about him and us?

Dare81
Feb 12, 2009, 03:23 AM
Let me look into my magic globe and see?

How could anyone tell you if your boy friend is the one? You have to decide that?

talaniman
Feb 12, 2009, 05:45 AM
How do you feel about him, Serena? 3 months is still to early for anything long-term, but it should be fun getting to know each other, so don't get carried away by the intense feelings of meeting someone new.

You already know you'll miss some details, you should have paid attention to, by moving to fast. Go slow with this, and see what's there.

ardahk
Feb 12, 2009, 05:54 AM
3 months isn't long - get used to each other and enjoy yourselves, there is no rush at all!

Once things become more long term you can think about this more - for now just see how things develop and let them develop naturally

Romefalls19
Feb 12, 2009, 06:13 AM
Enjoy this part of your lives, enjoy each others company and have fun. Don't worry if he is the one or not, he is the one right now.