I want to ask my ex back into my life for valentines. I dumped him because of a new addition in his life that put a lot of pressure on our relationship but I think I can handle all the pressure now.

I you don't know the story you can read my thread titled: 'Is it because he doesn't really care about me?'

I know he wants me back too. We talk everyday and he brings me lunch to work everyday whether were arguing or not. I just don't know how to ask him back out and make it special. I want this to be a really special valentines for him. Any ideas?

Have you confirmed somehow that the baby's mama lied to you?

Have you confirmed somehow that the baby's mama lied to you?

I know she did. There's just no way everything she was saying could be true. I know my boyfriend is a faithful person. He's never proved otherwise. He's just in a sticky situation and trying to be the mediator. I don't want him to spend valentines alone or without me.

Well good luck. I just wondered if you were feeling better about the situation.

I think this thread should be combine with your other thread because is related to your other issue and can shred a lot of light.

Now if the two of you get back together can you really handle being number 2? Also, don't expect for him to allow you to introduce you to his child or baby mother too quick. And you can't get upset if he goes by his baby mother house to spend time with his child.

If you can handle these things and wind up but together then good luck to the two of you.d