peaceandlove07
Feb 9, 2009, 03:20 AM
Hey everyone!
I am kind of a nervous wreck right now, looking up pregnancy symptoms and stuff online so I figured I would just get some opinions from you guys! I'm 20 years old, and not in a relationship right now because I found out some shady stuff about my boyfriend this week. Ever since I've found out I've been upset, but now I have calmed down about the whole thing and I am still feeling sick. I had sex with him twice, and both times we used a condom (which I know really means nothing since they are not 100% reliable). I had to take a pregnancy test on January 27th at my doctors because I was having a colposcopy and it came back negative, but I had sex on the 31st so I am afraid I could be pregnant.
My symptoms are:
-tiredness
-nervous feeling/bloated feeling in my stomach 24/7
-lower back pain
-headache/stiffness in neck (off and on)
-and that weird flu-ish feeling
I am not supposed to start my period for a couple days, but I think its weird that I am feeling so sick all the time. I know I should probably wait until I get (or don't get) my period. But I am supposed to go talk to my ex about the issues we have, and if I could possibly be pregnant I don't want to do or say anything that will make the situation even more difficult. So if you have an opinion I would love to hear it, or advice, or anything. Not sure if I am making sense cause I have haven't had much sleep in the past 2 days worrying about all this. So if this makes sense, help! Lol
ALSO, I am going to be responsible for my actions no matter what, and I am strongly against abortion so if your advice has anything to do with that don't tell me cause that isn't happening! :)
I am kind of a nervous wreck right now, looking up pregnancy symptoms and stuff online so I figured I would just get some opinions from you guys! I'm 20 years old, and not in a relationship right now because I found out some shady stuff about my boyfriend this week. Ever since I've found out I've been upset, but now I have calmed down about the whole thing and I am still feeling sick. I had sex with him twice, and both times we used a condom (which I know really means nothing since they are not 100% reliable). I had to take a pregnancy test on January 27th at my doctors because I was having a colposcopy and it came back negative, but I had sex on the 31st so I am afraid I could be pregnant.
My symptoms are:
-tiredness
-nervous feeling/bloated feeling in my stomach 24/7
-lower back pain
-headache/stiffness in neck (off and on)
-and that weird flu-ish feeling
I am not supposed to start my period for a couple days, but I think its weird that I am feeling so sick all the time. I know I should probably wait until I get (or don't get) my period. But I am supposed to go talk to my ex about the issues we have, and if I could possibly be pregnant I don't want to do or say anything that will make the situation even more difficult. So if you have an opinion I would love to hear it, or advice, or anything. Not sure if I am making sense cause I have haven't had much sleep in the past 2 days worrying about all this. So if this makes sense, help! Lol
ALSO, I am going to be responsible for my actions no matter what, and I am strongly against abortion so if your advice has anything to do with that don't tell me cause that isn't happening! :)