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nicetome
Feb 5, 2009, 12:50 PM
I'm clueless what to say. I asked my boyfriend what he likes and he said he loves dirty talk during sex. Well I'm lost I have no clue what to say.
He is in his later 40's and isn't able to go as long as we use to, except when I attempt to talk "dirty" someone please help.

spitvenom
Feb 5, 2009, 12:56 PM
My wife and I talk dirty in bed. She wasn't sure what to say either and her friend suggested for her to watch a little porn to get an idea. She did and went from there. When she told me what she did I asked her how much she watched and she said it was only a few different things she found on the internet. That seemed to help her.

chrissymarie
Feb 5, 2009, 12:56 PM
By talk dirty I think he means tell him what you like and what feels good and how good it feels and if he likes it and if it feels good to him and throw some sexy pet names in there too.

Fr_Chuck
Feb 5, 2009, 12:59 PM
If you have no clue what so ever, rent a porn film, go out and real "penthouse letters" assuming that is still around

slapshot_oi
Feb 5, 2009, 01:14 PM
There's varying degrees of it, from colorfully explicit language to degradation. It can get pretty intense, you got to be your own judge on that one.

Talking dirty definitely enhances the experience.

TexasParent
Feb 5, 2009, 03:02 PM
You could Google 'erotic stories' and see what you get. Having done this myself on occasion... cough... they may be more advanced that what you are prepared to engage in at this time. My advice is to take what you like from them and leave the rest.

Just thought I would offer another source of potentially useful or useless information depending on your opinion of it... ;)

liz28
Feb 5, 2009, 04:21 PM
This might sound crazy but I did it. Years ago I didn't have a clue what talking dirty meant so I I had my boyfriend called a sex line, with me on the line, and after hearing what the girl said I picked up on it quick and it helped me out. But now you can Google it and some porn movis does help.

Choux
Feb 5, 2009, 07:13 PM
Does he talk dirty to you, girl?

Tell him to so you can hear what he likes.

YOu sound like a young girl servicing an old guy. If you don't like dirty talking, don't participate!

Best wishes, :)