I have been going out with this guy and four months ago him and his ex broke up of three years. Him and I been going out for a month and he was all up on me for example calling me all the time taking me out picking me up from work... etc.. and just two days ago I notice he wasn't calling much and he wasn't doing what he was doing with me in the beginning and just today he called me saying he was confused... I mean just two days ago he was saying how he doesn't want to lose me and how I'm so independent and such an awesome girl and good good girl.. please help me I'm so confused.. :confused:

I'ts very simple; he doesn't want to get hurt. He needs to know where you 'stand' before he takes the plunge, but it seems that he has taken a plunge already, too much, too soon.
Don't be upset when I say you are his "rebound" girl. I know that you already know what you have to do, just tell him you like him, but you think you should both take it easy, for now. I wouldn't put too much faith into him at this point, because he is being fueled by emotions. Remember, every single time we leave a relationship, we hook up with the person that will give us what the previous person could, or would not. You are filling a big void for him, the ball is in your court, but don't put your heart on the line for this guy. Good luck, and be the strong woman that you are! :)

He hasn't had enough time to get over his 3 year relationship. You may be a rebound to help him get over her, so protect yourself.

Getting serious with a guy after he just left a 3 year relationship is a recipe for downfall.

Stay away.

You'll end up hurt, you don't cut feelings of three years off in as many months.

Give him time to heal, if it's supposed to be then it will be.

He isn't healing and you are the cushion he is using to take the fall of his previous heart break. Let him go, he needs time to heal and you don't want to be a rebound.