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tabwhoohoo
Feb 1, 2009, 06:11 PM
Okay so there's this boy and we have known each other for about 4 years.. we live about 2 hours away from each other [he's friends with my cousins]... I always go to visit for holiday.. and on the most recent vacation we became really close and now I really like him like a lot... I told him that I liked him and he said he liked me back... when I went back home after vacation we would talk everyday and flirt like a couple would... so about a month later I went back to visit and he wasn't acting the same when we were around all our friends[they tease us about liking eachother]... but when we were alone he'd flirt and stuff like nothing happened... soo now I'm like sooo confused because I didn't feel the same attention and now I'm like really sad and don't know what to do!

Please help me:confused:

JACKIE425
Feb 1, 2009, 08:05 PM
My brother had a long distance relationship and had long distance crushs and frm what I notice he did the same as that guy did and that meant he was talking to someone else or had a lady already honestly he is not into you anymore or maybe he is but he just has someone else who is closer because one thing about men is that they perfer a girl who is going to be dere all the time not sometimes and you might be dere for him on the phone but some men just need someone to hold to and stuff... thats what I think... good luck

Babyboy8983
Feb 2, 2009, 01:21 AM
Sadly as a guy I agree with Jackie, guys can be jerks when it comes to long distance relationships, either he is embarrassed about your friends making fun of u 2 or he does have another girl he likes, but not all guys are AS dumb as others, if u really like him u should talk to him and tell him how u feel and how he is making u feel, ask him about how he really feels about u