julydude
Feb 1, 2009, 05:34 PM
Hi
I am a student in my final yr and I have had a huge crush on a guy in anouther class, he's straight, loves his sports and is really friendly and says a lot of meaninful things.
I didn't use to talk to him, but I recently went away on a trip to do with my course and his class went as well, we stayed in a hotel and everyone got drunk and I had a long chat with him, and now were mates... I have had crushes on "striaght men" before, and the same thing happens, I become friends with them, and eventually we end up being more then friends, this has happened 3 times in the past 5 yrs... and as much as I would love it to happen this time, I don't want to ruin our new friendship, but I know I will say something to him, telling him I like him...
I am so confused because I do have a crush on him, and I want to me more then friends, but at the same time I don't? It might just be because I know deep down nothing will happen and I don't want to fall out over it... but due to my past experiences I think there might be a chance...
Does any one know how I can get over it, and just learn to feel for him as a friend? And not as something more?
Any help would be great thanks.
Julydude.
I am a student in my final yr and I have had a huge crush on a guy in anouther class, he's straight, loves his sports and is really friendly and says a lot of meaninful things.
I didn't use to talk to him, but I recently went away on a trip to do with my course and his class went as well, we stayed in a hotel and everyone got drunk and I had a long chat with him, and now were mates... I have had crushes on "striaght men" before, and the same thing happens, I become friends with them, and eventually we end up being more then friends, this has happened 3 times in the past 5 yrs... and as much as I would love it to happen this time, I don't want to ruin our new friendship, but I know I will say something to him, telling him I like him...
I am so confused because I do have a crush on him, and I want to me more then friends, but at the same time I don't? It might just be because I know deep down nothing will happen and I don't want to fall out over it... but due to my past experiences I think there might be a chance...
Does any one know how I can get over it, and just learn to feel for him as a friend? And not as something more?
Any help would be great thanks.
Julydude.