hopefully07
Jan 30, 2009, 04:10 PM
I'm 36 yrs old and have no sex drive. It is putting a big strain on my marriage. I don't know why I don't have the feelings I used to have. We have 7 children and have been married for almost 20 yrs. I want sex but when it comes down to it I can't bring myself to have it.I love my husband more then ever and don't want to lose him over sex. Please help. :(
Choux
Jan 30, 2009, 05:24 PM
First of all, I'm wondering if you can get a decent older woman to live with you, give her a monthly salary to help you with the children and meals?
You got to get yourself back, and you are going to need some help. :)
1. thorough medical exam including checking your hormones.
2. daily exercise away from your home.
3. redo your bedroom; create a boudoir. No clultter! Put a lock on the inside of the door. Have an hour three times a weekin your boudoir for reading erotica(not porn)and pleasuring yourself. Get in touch with passionate feelings.
4. Read a book by Dr. Northrup about female sexuality.
5. Go out shopping with a girlfriend regularly.
6. Get a new hobby.
7. Volunteer once a week-meet and talk to new people, new activities very stimulating.
You have to feel alive again, girl. Let yourself feel attracted to other men... feel the spice. :D