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Brooxies
Jan 30, 2009, 01:07 PM
I met a guy and we hit it right off. We had a very open relationship and told each other everything.While we dated he had told me he was Biosexual. It never affected our relationship because I never saw him look at other guys or act diiferently around me when guys were present. As the months went by he started telling me he loved me, and he meant it. The occasional fight came up but it became worse and worse. So,we both decided to break it off. Because we attend the same church and mix with the same family-friends we see each other all the time. We then started getting along again and my feelings for him came back.

Then a few months later he told me he was gay. He also asked a few times if he and I could be ''friends with benefits.'' I told him that it would never happen. He never pushed the idea any further after my refusal.

I still have feelings for him. What should I do?

plonak
Jan 30, 2009, 01:51 PM
OK so him telling you that he's gay is not correct. He still wants to have sex with you, so that clearly states that he's attracted to females as well.. I just wanted to clear that up

Either way, it doesn't matter. The relationship is over and you need to move on. Do not be "friends with benefits" with him. That will do so much damage to you!

You need to stop answering his calls, stop contact 100% and heal from your heartbreak.

Go out, try new hobbies and meet new people. With time you will discover that he was not right for you!

Good luck

talaniman
Jan 30, 2009, 03:22 PM
While we dated he had told me he was Bisexual.

He was honest before, you just didn't know what it meant. Since its over, just move on!