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tntdynamite
Jan 29, 2009, 10:21 AM
Ok, so we have all seen those fake, blonde, tall, skinny, tanned girls with tons of makeup on that are "goregous." And sometimes, those girls are not pretty at all. No offense to anyone. But why is it that just because some girls dyes her hair blonde, tans so much she looks orange, and applys 3 pounds of make up on, that guys think she is sooo hot. Now don't get me wrong, some of those people are pretty, but for the ones that aren't it just seems that if they have all the qualities listed above the are automaticaly "hot".

kctiger
Jan 29, 2009, 10:26 AM
Women are sometimes viewed by men as a trophy, and for sake of "braggin" rights, we will sometimes date an intellectually challenged, although viewed by society in general as beautiful, woman. Beauty is skin deep, we all know that, but society in general projects upon us the image of the "perfect" woman, and some guys tend to look at that as a plateau, and disregard everything else that goes into making a woman truly beautiful.

It is the objectivity of humans, breaking females down, to objects, and going from there.

Personally, I prefer a brunette anyway, but that is just me. It isn't the gals faults that they have so many models and magazine covers to compete with, and it isn't the guys fault that we have it rammed down our throat to the point of being judged otherwise if we don't date someone that looks like that...

Depends on how shallow people are... you can spend all the money in the world to enhance your outter beauty, but nothing you do changes the amount of goodness and character that lies within. As they say, looks can be deceiving... so, don't always throw caution to the wind.

bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE
Jan 29, 2009, 12:56 PM
You know, blonde-haired girls aren't the only type of women men are attracted to.

How about...

A woman with ivory colored skin and freckles sprinkled on her tiny nose and cheeks. Her eyes are the color of emeralds and her hair is a lucious red.

Or a woman with curly hair that is the color of chestnuts and her eyes remind you that of a fall day.

Or a woman with ebony black hair and her eyes are the color of the deep ocean. Her lips are that of a red licorish; someone like Snow White.

Every man has their own preference when it comes to "hot." I believe that it is false of you to say that all blondes are automatically labeled the hotter of all women.

Men like confidence in a woman. When you have confidence, you shine!

Romefalls19
Jan 29, 2009, 01:14 PM
Sure a woman may be attractive because she has looks, but in order for a woman to be "hot" to me, she has to have brains, sense of humor, respect, self esteem and confidence.

I would take dating a average girl(looks wise) who has a great personality over a "perfect 10" who couldn't tell you who won the United States Civil War.

kctiger
Jan 29, 2009, 01:15 PM
I would take dating a average girl(looks wise) who has a great personality over a "perfect 10" who couldn't tell you who won the United States Civil War.


Please point me in the direction of the women you find that can actually answer this question... ;)

Romefalls19
Jan 29, 2009, 01:19 PM
Please point me in the direction of the women you find that can actually answer this question...;)

I vote that this be a mandatory question asked on the first date, if they get it wrong, we simply get up and walk out.

Romefalls19
Jan 29, 2009, 01:36 PM
Oh yes KC, I sure can too!

1. DO YOU HAVE ANY PYSCHO EXES!

kctiger
Jan 29, 2009, 01:37 PM
2. Are you really a woman, or did you have a sex change?

HistorianChick
Jan 29, 2009, 02:00 PM
Honestly though, boys, this can be swung the other way, too.

Some guys think that if they look like an A&F model they will get any girl. THey think that if they have the body, the looks, the perfect hair, the sparkly smile, that they own the rights to every female and are God's gift to a woman - any woman.

That doesn't cut it for me. A picnic on a Civil War battlefield? Perfect first date. :) With extra coffee, of course! ;)

HistorianChick
Jan 29, 2009, 02:03 PM
kctiger agrees: So when are we going?

Meet at Gettysburg, sound good? ;) I'll bring the coffee, you bring the picnic basket?

kctiger
Jan 29, 2009, 02:05 PM
Meet at Gettysburg, sound good? ;) I'll bring the coffee, you bring the picnic basket?

P.S. I still have a crush on Jessica rabbit...

As for the OP, seriously. There are 6 billion people on this Earth... so think about that. That means there is at least 500 million people out there that would like you for just YOU! Blondes are over rated anyway...

jmw0713
Jan 29, 2009, 02:09 PM
It's more important than looks, I'll admit that. However, there has to be some sort of physical attraction between two people at first.

Let's be realistic here.

kctiger
Jan 29, 2009, 02:10 PM
It's more important than looks, I'll admit that. However, there has to be some sort of physical attraction between two people at first.

Let's be realistic here.

That is understandable. I think the issue here is that every person has THEIR OWN opinion of what "hot" is... you know? I think a lot of women are hot that some of my friends don't really feel the same way about...

jmw0713
Jan 29, 2009, 03:10 PM
I totally agree. However, the OP is assuming that all guys go for the barbie girls, when that is not always the case.

It just seems that way.

slapshot_oi
Jan 29, 2009, 03:14 PM
But why is it that just because some girls dyes her hair blonde, tans so much she looks orange, and applys 3 pounds of make up on, that guys think she is sooo hot.
Sounds like a rodeo clown.

The one girl that I can think of that fits your description is drop-dead gorgeous. She is a 10, she is blonde, doesn't wear much make-up 'cause she doesn't need to, and dresses real nice. But, she is one of the shyest people I know and she's pretty boring to talk to. It's not the cute shy, it's the "I really don't wanna talk to anyone" kind of shy, so it's a bit weird. I was pretty surprised when I first met her, I wouldn't expect a girl that beautiful to be so quiet.

Justwantfair
Jan 29, 2009, 03:17 PM
There are certain men that think that women who will open their legs or mouths for any guy are hot - - - - that doesn't mean that they are.

I have a joke here but I must omit it.

friend4u178
Jan 29, 2009, 05:02 PM
There are certain men that think that women who will open their legs or mouths for any guy are hot - - - - that doesn't mean that they are.

I have a joke here but I must omit it.

I'm curious now... cmon , tell us the joke "just" LOL :)

Romefalls19
Jan 29, 2009, 05:53 PM
Yeah, tell us the joke! You can't tease us like that!

talaniman
Jan 29, 2009, 06:29 PM
God didn't make no ugly people so every one is hot to somebody.

I suspect the OP is jealous of the attention she thinks those bleach blondes get.

Its one thing to say someone is hot, and quite another to really care for them.

Which would you rather be Hot, or loved?

Justwantfair
Jan 30, 2009, 07:21 AM
I have a friend, the blonde, tanned TOO often, thin, fake nails, that cheats on her husband daily by being willing to s--k anything. She isn't pretty but she gets plenty of attention from men anyway.

I have a male friend when we were talking about her that said that to be honest the world needs c--ks--kers in it and it makes him just happy she is around.

It was pretty funny but you had to be there probably. There are definitely reasons that everyone will appeal to someone.

High Max
Jan 30, 2009, 07:35 AM
Let me throw in my two cents on this one, as I know exactly what the poster is talking about here. These kinds of women are a by product of our society, the degradation of men and their pride. They know that they are desired and wanted, and act very mean, lewd, rude, stupid, and often cheat and try and put their men on a leash.

I believe its our fault (men) for letting these kinds of women behave this way. If we dumped them and put them in their place, this kind of behavior would stop. Of course, with the feminist movement men have lost their pride and ability to stand up for themselves a lot of the time.

slapshot_oi
Jan 30, 2009, 08:07 AM
I forgot to mention that all men and women like the poster is talking about are rarely respected. They're blatantly conceited and all of it is phony. Someone that self-absorbed is trying to convince him/herself and others that they're really beautiful, tough, whatever the case may be. People who actually believe they're gorgeous won't say anything.

They'll just have people walk into their lives that use them over and over. They aren't nearly as happy as they make themselves out to be just because they're not satisfied with their true-self. Being one of them actually sucks.

bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE
Jan 30, 2009, 02:24 PM
Yosomoton213,

You're FACT isn't relavent to what the OP is asking.

That may be how you feel but I know that's not how every man thinks.

roxypox
Jan 30, 2009, 06:39 PM
I too have to throw my 2 cents in... mostly because I have some topic related stories...

A friend of mine told me about a conversation she had with her boyfriend a year back, when she said; honestly what do you think about the fact that my boobs arn'r, you know exactly big... and he said, well if you were some girl I was going to have a one night stand with then I'd go for the fantasy... blond hair, big boobs and a tan... but you're the dream, your smart, we share a sense of humor and you're beautiful (not kidding real conversation.. whether boyfriend told the truth not sure, but he did save his bottom ;))

But as for ppl/guys or whom ever labeling those girls and those types of guys as 'hot', well... I don't really think all people label those types of girls as hot, I know quite a lot of guys (early 20s) who have a WHOLE OTHER range of words for them... none of them nice, besides it depends what type of person you are yourself... like most people in here have all ready said, we all have a type that we are attracted to...

Personally I've never been attracted to a type of look, what they all had in common,is a personality I like, a sense of humor that I love and that little special thing that grabbed my attention.

People with confidence is always hot, someone who is sure about themselves, and who are comfortable in their own skin... And not about where you can place them on a scale from 1 to 10. ;)

Beauty is only skin deep. I work at a school ages 6-16 (1st to 10th grade) and when ever I see young girls falling into the HOLE of thinking that looks is all that matters, I just find it really sad, B/c in the end its not your looks that'll make you happy is it?

And our society has become like that, always striving to be something or someone that is seen as GREAT, or hot or what ever it maybe.

Like Tal said, isn't it better to be loved?

When it comes to people who tell you you're hot or pretty or what ever, I find that such a compliment, just feels a whole lot better when it comes from someone who is close to you... and why strive to be hot, when you can be YOU for you and not a label. Besides, when it comes from someone you know they know you and all of you is included... they don't think you're pretty because they passed you on the street but because they know you as a person as well...

Oooo a story about looks; lol the worst pick up sentence a guy tried on me was;

Seriously, you are so pretty, you have great hair, beautiful eyes, you're practically perfect!!! You just need some bigger boobs and you will be.:rolleyes: :p LOL just had to throw that in there ;) The funniest part was him actually thinking that he could get me to go home with him after saying that, like appealing to my vanity would help him achieve his goal... when I'm the sort of person who actually laughed in his face and walked away... (and yes, turned it into a joke)

Like slapshot said, I do people who strive and strive to be hot just end up cheating themselves, why not find something worth striving for, something that won't fade that easily?

Molecular
Jan 31, 2009, 04:05 AM
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
I for one find nothing attractive about the blond-haired bimbo type with spray on tans.

Then again I hardly find anyone really "attractive" unless I'm actually falling in love with them. Nobody is ever as attractive as the woman you love. At least that's how it's like for me.

talaniman
Jan 31, 2009, 07:00 AM
I have found myself attracted to many types of female, short, fat, or tall, skinny, or small, blind, cripple, or crazy.

kctiger
Feb 1, 2009, 06:24 AM
I have found myself attracted to many types of female, short, fat, or tall, skinny, or small, blind, cripple, or crazy.

I had to highlight that last characteristic Tal, as you are now referring to every female there is...

On the other side, this is correct. I find myself being attracted to every type of female you can think of. Sometimes it is their personality that I am enamored my, sometimes it is their looks. It all just depends. As for the females that think they are "God's gift," well, that is another story. Those types are just simply fun to mess around with just to put them in their place...

Yes, I am bitter from time to time.

Carry on... :cool:

Justwantfair
Feb 1, 2009, 02:45 PM
I had to highlight that last characteristic Tal, as you are now referring to every female there is...

OK, you are due for this one. Not saying there are not crazy women out there, but as a level-headed, easy-going female I can't say it's EVERY female there is... :confused:

Sad thing is they ought to be able to stamp that characteristic on your forehead... Can't see crazy when you are looking to meet someone.

kctiger
Feb 2, 2009, 06:21 AM
OK, you are due for this one. Not saying there are not crazy women out there, but as a level-headed, easy-going female I can't say it's EVERY female there is... :confused:

Sad thing is they ought to be able to stamp that characteristic on your forehead... Can't see crazy when you are looking to meet someone.

Easy... I was actually doing that more for laugh than anything. You seem like a very well put together woman, inside and out, so I didn't mean to offend. Sometimes I make comments on this board for mere laugh...

Truth be told, I respect ALL women a lot, until they lose that respect by their actions.

Carry on... :cool:

Justwantfair
Feb 2, 2009, 07:50 AM
Easy...I was actually doing that more for laugh than anything. You seem like a very well put together woman, inside and out, so I didn't mean to offend. Sometimes I make comments on this board for mere laugh...

Truth be told, I respect ALL women a lot, until they lose that respect by their actions.

Carry on...:cool:

LOL, there was no real offense... just thought I would point out the generalization.

I have seen your respect for all people and that is a characteristic I admire.

::Carrying on::

wolfgangqpublic
Feb 2, 2009, 08:58 AM
As a guy, with plenty of guy friends, I can say with absolute certainty that the best guys (the top 25%) are definitely interested in more than thin, bleach-blond bimbos.

It may take some girls a little longer to realize who those guys are.

wolfgangqpublic
Feb 2, 2009, 08:58 AM
Meet at Gettysburg, sound good? ;) I'll bring the coffee, you bring the picnic basket?

LOL - I actually went to Gettysburg with my ex. This was clearly my choice haha.

neverme
Feb 2, 2009, 09:00 AM
I just scanned over the other answers and I agree with most of the posters here.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Hot.. is the whole package.

You know you guys said it.

But I think that truly these girls are just insecure about their appearance so they cover it up with fake bake and make up. It's all a mask. So next time you see them try to see if it's just a scared girl underneath all of that.

By the way the OP never said anything about these girls being stupid for the posters that said stuff about that, just because you have blonde hair and big boobs doesn't mean you have air for brains.

kctiger
Feb 2, 2009, 09:49 AM
I think it goes a long way in saying that none of us should feel confident enough to EVER call someone ugly. A poster said, on the first page, that people are attracted to all kinds of different people. I am totally humble when I get a compliment from a girl, whether I find her attractive...

No one is ugly, and I don't care how good looking you think you are, you don't have the right to call someone else ugly. I am a pretty good looking guy, but didn't get a lot of girls to like being around me because, at one time, I lacked any real self confidence. I can tell you, now that I have some self confidence, it makes a world of difference, as it projects from the inside out...

Carry on... :cool:

Alty
Feb 2, 2009, 10:10 AM
In my 38 years experience on this earth (no comments KC;)) I've learned a few things, here's a few of them.

The girl with the bleach blonde hair, fake tan, lowcut shirt and fake boobs is usually the girl with the least confidence in herself.

If you're looking for substance, go up to the girl sitting at the bar, talking to everyone there, wearing jeans and a sweater. Really, that's the girl who will get the guys, every single time!

The more someone pays for their outward appearance, the more insecure they are about what they have to offer, they're hoping that no one will look deeper. It's like shining a light in someone's eye, you're too busy concentrating on the light to notice that everything else is dim.

I find it sad that so many younger girls think that their appearance is all that matters. I can promise you one thing, at 70 years of age, those bleach blondes aren't going to be so hot, and unless they have something else to offer, they'll die without a partner, just their 30 cats and a goldfish.

Find the light within, it always shines brighter!

roxypox
Feb 2, 2009, 10:41 AM
In my 38 years experience on this earth (no comments KC;)) I've learned a few things, here's a few of them.

The girl with the bleach blonde hair, fake tan, lowcut shirt and fake boobs is usually the girl with the least confidence in herself.

If you're looking for substance, go up to the girl sitting at the bar, talking to everyone there, wearing jeans and a sweater. Really, that's the girl who will get the guys, every single time!

The more someone pays for their outward appearance, the more insecure they are about what they have to offer, they're hoping that no one will look deeper. It's like shining a light in someone's eye, you're too busy concentrating on the light to notice that everything else is dim.

I find it sad that so many younger girls think that their appearance is all that matters. I can promise you one thing, at 70 years of age, those bleach blondes aren't going to be so hot, and unless they have something else to offer, they'll die without a partner, just their 30 cats and a goldfish.

Find the light within, it always shines brighter!

So true Alty! And so well said!

My experience is that as well.

And as for young girls, like a said in a previous post, I work at a school, and I see a lot of young girls who seem to spend a lot of time on their appearance, and the way they act... its like dense is the new clever, and the dim is the new smart. Its sad is what it is.

As for the girl in the jeans and the sweater! Heck yeah!

Lol "30 cats and a goldfish":D

slapshot_oi
Feb 2, 2009, 11:11 AM
In my 38 years experience on this earth (no comments KC;)) I've learned a few things, here's a few of them.

The girl with the bleach blonde hair, fake tan, lowcut shirt and fake boobs is usually the girl with the least confidence in herself.

So true, in fact, I was hanging out with a girl like that last night. Unfortunately, she is the girlfriend of a good buddy of mine. Aside being very whiny, needy and treating him like garbage, she is constantly judging people on looks alone.

If she didn't find me attractive she probably wouldn't be my friend, and I think she's only my friend just to use me as leverage against her boyfriend to make him jealous (she's brought my name up in a few fights they had... yeah, she's that bad). She's one of the girls featured in movie Clueless. I've never seen her without a low-cut shirt.

There's nothing to her beside her looks, and I know first hand she makes a terrible girlfriend. She's only in a relationship now because she knows that her boyfriend won't leave her.

HistorianChick
Feb 2, 2009, 12:02 PM
just cos you have blonde hair and big boobs doesn't mean you have air for brains.

I have a humorous story for this one...

It all happened on a dark and stormy night... lol. Actually, literally. I was in a Barnes and Noble, waiting for the release of a book (a book that shall remain unnamed, simply because at my age, waiting for said book *could* be taken as childish! ), as I was waiting, I bought myself a nice large coffee and went to have a seat in my favorite section - US History. Mind you, I have almost every book EVER written about Andersonville Prison - including the diary of my great, great great, Grandfather... a prisoner and survivor - and was quite enthralled with a book that I hadn't seen before. I was sitting on the ground in front of the Civil War section, completely enthralled with this book, my coffee and pink cell phone sitting right next to me... as well as my cute little Coach purse and pink leather jacket.

So, the stage was set. I'm sitting there, minding my own business, when some JERK stood over me and impatiently cleared his throat. I didn't look up because I was, well, because I was lost in the book. He cleared his throat again and made his shadow fall over the book - stupid man. I looked up, and said, "Can I help you?" He laughed and said, "You're in the way."

At that moment, all the Barbie, Jessica Rabbit instincts in me shot out, I stood my jean clad, Barbie figure up, looked him straight in the eye (since I had my heeled boots on, we were the same height), and said, "EXcuse me?? I was reading."

He did the up-down, and said, "Well, haha, you're in the WRONG section. This is history."

(I was getting a little bit upset at that point)

I replied, "Yes, SIR, I know."

He stepped back, did another up-down, and said, "YOU are into CIVIL WAR?"

I said, "But of course, SIR. This Barbie has Brains." And took my little Barbie self, my stack of civil war books, and my cute accessories over to the World War 2 section, where a chair was just opening up. I did an extra little "hip swagger" just for him... the man that was scraping his chin off the floor.

It was great. :)

YesIamIam
Feb 2, 2009, 12:14 PM
It's biology, there are proven studies on it and everything. Men really are more sexually attracted to blondes (in general). This is because women's hair darkens as they get older so men evolved to want to mate with the lighter haired women as a means of bettering their chances at healthy offspring. Younger women are more fertile. And as far as make up goes, it often shows youth too. As piggish as a lot of men are about these fake girls, they really can't help a lot of it!

Alty
Feb 2, 2009, 12:20 PM
I love it when men assume that because you're pretty you must be dumb as a post.

Ah the stories I could tell, too many to post here. I really should write a biography, but I'd have to do it under a fake name. ;)

My favorite memory was in high school. We were finally offered a German 10 course in grade 10, so I decided to take it in lieu of french, after all, I already speak German, it was an easy A (okay, not showing my intelligence here, or am I?)

Anyway, the teacher was new, young, motivated and overly confident. He swaggered up to the black board and wrote down a sentence in German. He turned to face the class with this self satisfied little grin on his face and proclaimed "I guarantee that you will all be able to write in German by the end of this semester, I know that it seems impossible now, but under my instruction you will learn!"

I raised my hand and when he called on me I explained to him that the sentence he had written on the board was incorrect. He glared at me and said "I don't think that you have any right to question me, I am the teacher, you are the pupil, you're here to learn German, and until you do I suggest you keep your opinions to yourself."

I raised my hand again, and this time I told him how to properly write the sentence. He turned bright red, "young lady, I have taken 3 years of German in college, I think I'm a bit more knowledgeable then a 10th grade girl, so you just sit your pretty little self down and leave the teaching to those that are smarter than you".

Okay, I couldn't that let that go "Um, sir, I was born in Germany, english is my second language, so, even though your 3 years of german study is impressive, I've been studying it since I was born, so, you might want to listen to me, unless of course you want to teach everyone how to speak German incorrectly."

Ya, I got kicked out of the class. Me and my big mouth! :(

liz28
Feb 2, 2009, 12:26 PM
I would like to know what type and how many men took place in this study and where did this study take place because I've many guys friends and males in my family and everyone has their own definition for hot.

To be honest most of the guys I know are attracted to females with Beyonce, Jlo body type. They like a leggy, shapely, big butt girs not the thin ones.

slapshot_oi
Feb 4, 2009, 09:31 AM
I would like to know what type and how many men took place in this study and where did this study take place because I've many guys friends and males in my family and everyone has their own definition for hot.

To be honest most of the guys I know are attracted to females with Beyonce, Jlo body type. They like a leggy, shapely, big butt girs not the thin ones.
Beyonce is gorgeous, like Alicia Keys, but J-Lo is trash.

Yes, curvy women with hips; that's my type. Stuff like that, how she dresses and even crow's feet and those lines that extend from the corners of the nostrils to the corners of the mouth I find really, really attractive (I may have posted this before). They're all signs of a woman and not a girl.

Thin girls with damaged hair or bad teeth really turns me off.

There's a theory men like women with big hips because they're more able to birth a child.

kctiger
Feb 4, 2009, 09:32 AM
I would have to say the biggest turn off for me... is probably poor grammar.

Off topic a bit, but just wanted to share that.

Romefalls19
Feb 4, 2009, 09:42 AM
Kc I agree, bad grammar or horrible spelling just irrates me! If I can't hold a conversation with the person for more than 10 minutes about something meaningful then I am walking away.

Alty
Feb 4, 2009, 09:57 AM
Kc I agree, bad grammer or horrible spelling just irrates me! If I can't hold a conversation with the person for more than 10 minutes about something meaningful then I am walking away.

I think that most men feel that way. A pretty trinket with no substance gets old fast.

Obviously I'm female (duh) and I have to say that most of the guys I know would rather have an intelligent, fun, motivated, confident women then a gorgeous blonde that can't even tie her own shoes (I'm not saying all blondes are dumb, not at all!).

Correct me if I'm wrong boys! Go on, I double dog dare you! :D

Romefalls19
Feb 4, 2009, 10:00 AM
I can't correct you, Alten. I've dated that type of girl before, blonde hair, great body, cheerleader and it got old fast. She thought that the Germans won the Civil War, sure my friends thought she was so hot and I was getting high fives for dating her, I ended it because she lacked the brains that I wanted in a spouse.

Alty
Feb 4, 2009, 10:08 AM
The civil war, whatsa? ;)

Wait, I'm German, you mean we didn't win? Sad. :(

Romefalls19
Feb 4, 2009, 10:10 AM
I'm German too Alten, sadly we have trouble following through on anything dealing with war. But, on the bright side, we do make some killer beer

Alty
Feb 4, 2009, 10:11 AM
Ah yes, German beer, the nectar of the Gods. :)

Sprechen Sie Deutsch?

Romefalls19
Feb 4, 2009, 10:15 AM
Sadly, I don't speak much. I have been trying to get my grandmother to teach me but getting her to talk about her time there(she was there during WWII and the Nazi's destroyed her home and ruined a lot of family possessions.

I am however, going to be taking classes with my fiancé as she wants to learn and visit to Germany.

Alty
Feb 4, 2009, 10:19 AM
Germany is a beautiful country. I was born in Germany, actually, I'm still a German citizen.

I do speak it, but since my parents died there's no one around to speak it to, so I'm a bit rusty. One week in Germany though and I'm talking like a native. :)

Definitely take her to Germany. When you're there visit Rothenburg ob der Tauber. It's a very beautiful town, lots to see, the architecture is to die for and it just so happens to be where I was born.

Justwantfair
Feb 4, 2009, 10:21 AM
Ich habe einen Übersetzer, der Deutsch spricht, zählt jenes?

Romefalls19
Feb 4, 2009, 10:21 AM
I will surely have to go there, and will come to you for tips on places to see in Germany when we decide to go

Alty
Feb 4, 2009, 10:24 AM
Ich habe einen Übersetzer, der Deutsch spricht, zählt jenes?

Es zaehlt. Sehr gut Justy. ;) Ich hab kein uebersetzer, und weiss nicht wie ich das umlaut machen kann.

Alty
Feb 4, 2009, 10:26 AM
I will surely have to go there, and will come to you for tips on places to see in Germany when we decide to go

I'll make a list. ;)

I'm planning on going in a year or two. I haven't been in 8 years, I miss it and my family there. My kids are almost old enough to really enjoy it. My daughter is in German bilingual, she's doing really well too. Hopefully they'll both pick up some of the language. Kids are like sponges, they just soak it all up! :)

Great, now I'm homesick. :(

bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE
Feb 11, 2009, 09:14 AM
Now I have to dye my hair blonde just so men will find me more youthful and child bearing?

UH...

If every woman in this world did that then where is the variety? GEEZ!

AmExp
Feb 11, 2009, 09:37 AM
I think most of us girls have been there. I just don't get it either. Especially since I will not be blonde, skinny, or orange. Sounds like Aubrey O'Day from Danity Kane... I just don't find that type of look attractive. Ohhh men. Some never know what they want.

jmw0713
Feb 11, 2009, 10:09 AM
Every man has a different idea of what is attractive and what is not. Same with women... you are no different.

Why do women always go for the "pretty" guys who are tall, clean cut, and have every muscle in their body on display?

If I can't walk around with my shirt off, flexing of my 8 pack abs and arms... you want nothing to do with me... :p

kctiger
Feb 11, 2009, 10:10 AM
Every man has a different idea of what is attractive and what is not. Same with women...you are no different.

Why do women always go for the "pretty" guys who are tall, clean cut, and have every muscle in their body on display??

Hey now... we can't help it that we look good :D

jmw0713
Feb 11, 2009, 10:13 AM
LOL! That's right KC. Sometimes its just natural!

AmExp
Feb 11, 2009, 10:13 AM
IS KCTIGER trying to say he is muscle-bound and build like brick house?

kctiger
Feb 11, 2009, 10:16 AM
IS KCTIGER trying to say he is muscle-bound and build like brick house??

Look, you are in a relationship right now, so please... no drooling over me

Justwantfair
Feb 11, 2009, 10:31 AM
My boyfriend turned his 6 pack in for the whole keg along time ago.

He is still beautiful to me :D

kctiger
Feb 11, 2009, 11:08 AM
My boyfriend turned his 6 pack in for the whole keg along time ago.

He is still beautiful to me :D

Aww... a single tear rolls down my eye... you guys are so cute!! ;)

Justwantfair
Feb 11, 2009, 11:16 AM
Don't make me get out my boxing glove kc... ;)

AmExp
Feb 11, 2009, 11:29 AM
Lol... ok KCTiger

bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE
Feb 11, 2009, 11:52 AM
Every man has a different idea of what is attractive and what is not. Same with women...you are no different.

Why do women always go for the "pretty" guys who are tall, clean cut, and have every muscle in their body on display??

If I can't walk around with my shirt off, flexing of my 8 pack abs and arms...you want nothing to do with me....:p

A man that walks around flexing his muscles is most likely egotistical and if that's the case then I don't want anything to do with him.

Yes, I do prefer clean cut men; who wants a grungy one anyway?

jmw0713
Feb 11, 2009, 12:36 PM
Hey! I shower, twice a day sometimes!

I also hear women making comments all the time about the built up guys walking around. My point being, it's not just guys that do this as the OP was inferring.

Justwantfair
Feb 11, 2009, 12:44 PM
I like to drool, hope you men don't mind.

kctiger
Feb 11, 2009, 12:46 PM
I like to drool, hope you men don't mind.

Not at all... just watch the shoes.

Carry on... :cool:

jmw0713
Feb 11, 2009, 12:46 PM
Hey, I am just trying to point out the double standard here. Women can no longer complain when men do it and men can't complain when women do it.

And if you want to drool all over me... Be my guest!! :D

artlady
Feb 11, 2009, 12:47 PM
Personally,I think less is more.Women who overdo it look trashy and I think that is what is pulling the guys in.She looks cheap so she must be easy.
I 'm not saying it is fair to make that assumption but it happens.If it looks like a duck kind of thing.
I think Reese Witherspoon is a doll and Pam Anderson reminds me of a Barbie doll.

Justwantfair
Feb 11, 2009, 12:47 PM
I have NO double standard, I drool over men and women on an equal basis.

Justwantfair
Feb 11, 2009, 12:48 PM
Personally,I think less is more.Women who overdo it look trashy and I think that is what is pulling the guys in.She looks cheap so she must be easy.
I 'm not saying it is fair to make that assumption but it happens.If it looks like a duck kind of thing.
I think Reese Witherspoon is a doll and Pam Anderson reminds me of a Barbie doll.

Barbie doll code for tr**p. ;)

kctiger
Feb 11, 2009, 12:48 PM
I don't drool over men... there are a few that I may have a "man crush" on... but I would hope I don't find myself drooling over many men...

Justwantfair
Feb 11, 2009, 12:49 PM
I don't drool over men...there are a few that I may have a "man crush" on...but I would hope I don't find myself drooling over many men...

You have "man crush"es... do we get an example?

Saying Rome doesn't count ;)

kctiger
Feb 11, 2009, 12:51 PM
Hmmm...

Any dude that has an awesome voice can usually get me.. and no, I am not gay, just have a deep respect for that talent.

Aaron Lewis... huge man crush on.

I can see how this may turn in-appropriate at any moment...

jmw0713
Feb 11, 2009, 12:51 PM
LOL!! Uh-oh KC. Common let see the man crushes you have!! ROFLMAO!

artlady
Feb 11, 2009, 01:01 PM
Ya got to love a guy who cops to a man crush.. .awesome :)

Justwantfair
Feb 11, 2009, 01:01 PM
Ya gotta love a guy who cops to a man crush...awesome :)

Very sexy, even sexier than that 6 pack he boosted about.

kctiger
Feb 11, 2009, 01:03 PM
No six pack... I have a defined body, but have yet to be able to tame that beast.

I think all guys have that typical "man crush" and they are absolutely lying if they don't. Or, maybe, I am just totally out of my mind...

Justwantfair
Feb 11, 2009, 01:06 PM
No six pack...I have a defined body, but have yet to be able to tame that beast.

I think all guys have that typical "man crush" and they are absolutely lying if they don't. Or, maybe, I am just totally out of my mind...

Knowing you, it's probably the latter ;)

jmw0713
Feb 11, 2009, 01:09 PM
See I define a man crush as an unusual non-sexual infatuation with another man. I personally don't have any man crushes. However, I know someone who has what I consider a man crush on Robbie Williams. Every time I got over to the guys house, he is watching the same Robbie Williams DVD!! He pulls his music videos on Youtube. He has posters...

That is a man crush!!

OK wait.. I have one: Clint Eastwood!! That guy is bad @ss in all his movies!! Although, I'm not nearly as bad as my buddy is with Ricky Williams. I still have all of his spaghetti westerns though!

Alty
Feb 11, 2009, 04:42 PM
No six pack...I have a defined body, but have yet to be able to tame that beast.

I think all guys have that typical "man crush" and they are absolutely lying if they don't. Or, maybe, I am just totally out of my mind...

Kc, a man that can admit a "man crush" is a total turn on. I think you just made all the ladies weak in the knees.

Now, I have a six pack, it's in the fridge, I got the good stuff this time! :D

Also, men with a sexy voice is a major turn on for me too. If you're a big hunky, muscular, gorgeous man with a mickey mouse voice, no, can't do it. But, if you're a skinny, balding, man with a deep sexy voice, well, I'm puddy in your paws. :)

Vin Diesel is a perfect example. On the looks scale, ah, not bad, but not hot, hot, hot, but his voice, ahhhhhh, I'm melting. :cool:

neverme
Feb 11, 2009, 04:47 PM
Vin Deisel... yum!

Romefalls19
Feb 11, 2009, 05:12 PM
Ouch, what's with you women and Vin Diesel? Luckily you are looking at his looks and not his acting talent, oh man is he horrible. But I can admit the man-crush, George St.Pierre from the UFC, that freaking dude is in some serious shape! I'd kill for that type of body, something I am working towards and happy to say I am close

friend4u178
Feb 11, 2009, 05:16 PM
I think all guys have that typical "man crush" and they are absolutely lying if they don't. Or, maybe, I am just totally out of my mind...

Your crazy KC... I isn't admitting to nothing :cool:

Alty
Feb 11, 2009, 05:19 PM
Your crazy KC...............I aint admitting to nothing :cool:

Come on M, there has to be some guy out there that made you look twice. :)

I'll admit to a girl crush, Angelina Jolie, that women is gorgeous. The long brown hair, the curves, she's got an awesome body and I love her attitude. Yup, if I were going to switch teams I'd do it for her! :D

neverme
Feb 11, 2009, 05:19 PM
Ouch, what's with you women and Vin Diesel? Luckily you are looking at his looks and not his acting talent, oh man is he horrible. But I can admit the man-crush, George St.Pierre from the UFC, that freaking dude is in some serious shape! I'd kill for that type of body, something I am working towards and happy to say I am close

It's not just his looks, personally I wouldn't normally be too gone on the big muscly thing but I do like the physical power and strength that comes with them...

... and that sexy voice, like I said Yum! :D

neverme
Feb 11, 2009, 05:21 PM
Come on M, there has to be some guy out there that made you look twice. :)

I'll admit to a girl crush, Angelina Jolie, that women is gorgeous. The long brown hair, the curves, she's got an awesome body and I love her attitude. Yup, if I were going to switch teams I'd do it for her! :D

It's always much easier, for some reason, for women to admit that they find a woman attractive!

friend4u178
Feb 11, 2009, 05:24 PM
Come on M, there has to be some guy out there that made you look twice. :)



Ok Ok... when I travelled to Thailand recently there were a few I looked at twice , but hey I never knew they were boys LOL ;)

Alty
Feb 11, 2009, 05:25 PM
It's always much easier, for some reason, for women to admit that they find a woman attractive!

Very true. It's just like going to a club, girls have no problem dancing with other girls, no one thinks anything of it, but, if two guy friends danced together there'd be talk.

I wish it wasn't like that, but sadly there are many double standards in our little world.

So come on boys, we all know you're not gay, not that there would be anything wrong if you where, but, we all have crushes on the same sex, so cough it up M! :D

Alty
Feb 11, 2009, 05:26 PM
Ok Ok.................when I travelled to Thailand recently there were a few I looked at twice , but hey i never knew they were boys LOL ;)

Okay, you really have to explain that one. Go on, we have all night. :D

friend4u178
Feb 11, 2009, 05:29 PM
Okay, you really have to explain that one. Go on, we have all night. :D

LMAO... you surprise me Alty ;)
Kathoey - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kathoey)

Alty
Feb 11, 2009, 05:30 PM
Just for us girls, and, if the boys will admit it, for them too. ;)

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Just really yummy, especially when he's talking. Heck, he could just mumble and make me weak in the knees. REOWR! :D

Alty
Feb 11, 2009, 05:32 PM
LMAO................you surprise me Alty ;)
Kathoey - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kathoey)

Okay, well, you didn't say they were transgender. :rolleyes:

I surprise you? In a good way? :cool:

neverme
Feb 11, 2009, 05:46 PM
:D Thanks Alty! :D

Alty
Feb 11, 2009, 05:49 PM
:D Thanks Alty! :D

Anytime, and there's more where those came from. :)

neverme
Feb 11, 2009, 05:53 PM
LMAO................you surprise me Alty ;)
Kathoey - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kathoey)

Didn't know wiki had it in them? :D

Justwantfair
Feb 11, 2009, 07:42 PM
Kc, a man that can admit a "man crush" is a total turn on. I think you just made all the ladies weak in the knees.

Now, I have a six pack, it's in the fridge, I got the good stuff this time! :D

Also, men with a sexy voice is a major turn on for me too. If you're a big hunky, muscular, gorgeous man with a mickey mouse voice, no, can't do it. But, if you're a skinny, balding, man with a deep sexy voice, well, I'm puddy in your paws. :)

Vin Diesel is a perfect example. On the looks scale, ah, not bad, but not hot, hot, hot, but his voice, ahhhhhh, I'm melting. :cool:

Vin Diesel is hot because it's easy to imagine him not taking "No" for an answer, in a REALLY good way.

Justwantfair
Feb 11, 2009, 07:51 PM
I was all mushy at the pure mention of his name... ummm ;)

There aren't many men that do that for me.

friend4u178
Feb 11, 2009, 08:06 PM
Here you's go... a present for the mushy girls ;)

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Justwantfair
Feb 11, 2009, 09:33 PM
Ok, I love Vin, but there is something about staring at ANY man's armpit that just really isn't doing it for me, :D

friend4u178
Feb 11, 2009, 09:48 PM
Ok, I love Vin, but there is something about staring at ANY man's armpit that just really isn't doing it for me, :D

Geez , there's just no pleasing you girls sometimes LOL ;)

Is this better?

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Alty
Feb 11, 2009, 11:25 PM
Reowr, purr, love it M, thanks. :)

neverme
Feb 12, 2009, 04:24 AM
Vin Diesel is hot because it's easy to imagine him not taking "No" for an answer, in a REALLY good way.

LMAO!! Yum :D

kctiger
Feb 12, 2009, 06:36 AM
Unbelievable. You girls are out of control!

To top it off, he is one of the worst actors in Hollywood... just worthless!

HistorianChick
Feb 12, 2009, 06:37 AM
Christian Bale... a WHOLE lot more up my alley... got one of those, M?? ;)

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 07:28 AM
Unbelievable. You girls are out of control!!

To top it off, he is one of the worst actors in Hollywood...just worthless!

Well if I REALLY had my choice, I would pick Tom Welling in a heartbreak, does that count for you kc?

I don't need Vin to act for me, just a simple taking advantage of would suffice! ;)

bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE
Feb 12, 2009, 09:06 AM
I don't know about you ladies but my sweetheart is Jack (Matthew Fox) from the show Lost...

http://amberface.files.wordpress.com/2008/02/tn2_matthew_fox_3.jpg

He's 22 years older than me but WHAT A HUNK!!

Romefalls19
Feb 12, 2009, 09:09 AM
I'm putting it out there for us guys now. Hayden Panettiere, come on now!

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:09 AM
I LOVE HAYDEN

I am not a guy, but she can still be my hero.

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 09:10 AM
Unbelievable. You girls are out of control!!

To top it off, he is one of the worst actors in Hollywood...just worthless!

No he can't act, but then he doesn't have to for what I have in mind. :D

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 09:12 AM
I'm putting it out there for us guys now. Hayden Panettiere, come on now!

I had to look her up. She is very pretty, but I still prefer Angelina Jolie. ;)

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:14 AM
Yummy girl!

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Romefalls19
Feb 12, 2009, 09:14 AM
Ugh, Angelina lost points with me after Billy Bob Thornton.

kctiger
Feb 12, 2009, 09:19 AM
Hayden is right up my alley... so is Megan Fox...

Time for a sack lunch.. num,num,num

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 09:20 AM
So you boys do prefer blondes with big boobs. ;)

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:21 AM
Megan Fox is hot too!

I am not nearly as particular about women that I love to drool over as I am men.

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 09:23 AM
Megan Fox is hot too!!

I am not nearly as particular about women that I love to drool over as I am men.

I much prefer to drool over men, but I can appreciate a pretty woman.

No, I'm not switching teams, I like my team. :D

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:26 AM
I much prefer to drool over men, but I can appreciate a pretty woman.

No, I'm not switching teams, I like my team. :D

I am only a switch hitter in my fantasies... they are just GREAT fantasies.

kctiger
Feb 12, 2009, 09:27 AM
I am only a switch hitter in my fantasies... they are just GREAT fantasies.

So... what are we doing for Valentine's Day?? You and I could make things happen :D

Romefalls19
Feb 12, 2009, 09:28 AM
Nah, not exactly a boob guy, more of a nice rear. Not going to lie:-), and hair color doesn't bother me too much. Nothing like fire engine red though, not into that look.

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:28 AM
Only if you are willing to switch hit too... LMFAO, so J/K

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 09:28 AM
So...what are we doing for Valentine's Day??? You and I could make things happen :D

Justy, go for it, then tell us all about it afterwards, every detail! :cool:

Romefalls19
Feb 12, 2009, 09:29 AM
::Shakes head:: what has this thread come to ha ha

kctiger
Feb 12, 2009, 09:29 AM
More of a legs guy here... nothing like a sweet pair of legs... that go on forever...

Are we getting off topic here?

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:30 AM
Justy, go for it, then tell us all about it afterwards, every detail! :cool:

I will tell tales and keep pictures/video... :D

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:30 AM
More of a legs guy here...nothing like a sweet pair of legs...that go on forever...

Are we getting off topic here??

We haven't been on topic FOR PAGES

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 09:31 AM
Nah, not exactly a boob guy, more of a nice rear. Not going to lie:-), and hair color doesn't bother me too much. Nothing like fire engine red though, not into that look.

Ya, I don't like boobs on a guy either. ;)

For me it's really all about the voice and attitude, I don't know why. A good sense of humor, intelligence, and heck, a nice body doesn't hurt but it's not a must if he has everything else.

A guy that can put up with my quirks, well, that's pretty darn attractive too. :D

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 09:33 AM
We haven't been on topic FOR PAGES

So far so good, until we get caught. :eek:

I could ask the mods to move this to the member discussions forum.

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:34 AM
So far so good, until we get caught. :eek:

I could ask the mods to move this to the member discussions forum.

We aren't TOO far off topic...

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 09:35 AM
We aren't TOO far off topic...

Justy, are you justifying? :p

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:36 AM
Justy, are you justifying? :p

Just a smidge.

kctiger
Feb 12, 2009, 09:36 AM
So... we have a date then?

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:38 AM
So...we have a date then?

We already had a date in Vegas...

kctiger
Feb 12, 2009, 09:39 AM
True. What happens in Vegas... stays in Vegas... please...

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 09:39 AM
I'm pretty sure I can beat your Valentine's day plans.

My poor husband is staying at home with the kids while I go out with my ex because he's in town but can only get together on Saturday.

How twisted is that? ;)

But really, the ex and I are good friends, only friends, heck, our relationship was over 21 years ago, we were kids, no lingering feelings, just friendship.

Okay, now it sounds like I'm justifying. :(

bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE
Feb 12, 2009, 09:42 AM
Here are a few natural, beautiful women...

http://www.rachelmcadams.us/wallpaper/rachel_mcadams_wallpaper_03.jpg

http://justentertainment.files.wordpress.com/2008/03/kate_beckinsale_1.jpg

http://i174.photobucket.com/albums/w88/wallnerd/girls/Kate_on_beach_lost.jpg

This kind of beauty should NEVER go under the knife...

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:42 AM
I'm pretty sure I can beat your Valentine's day plans.

My poor husband is staying at home with the kids while I go out with my ex because he's in town but can only get together on Saturday.

How twisted is that? ;)

But really, the ex and I are good friends, only friends, heck, our relationship was over 21 years ago, we were kids, no lingering feelings, just friendship.

Okay, now it sounds like I'm justifying. :(

Wow, that is one hell of an understanding husband, if he pops up on here starting a thread, I would be worried about the advice we would throw at this scenerio ;)

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 09:42 AM
Now she's really beautiful. Good find BB. :)

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:43 AM
True. What happens in Vegas...stays in Vegas...please...

Depends on what happens, cause if I take you home with me, then it's out of Vegas ;)

kctiger
Feb 12, 2009, 09:44 AM
Depends on what happens, cause if I take you home with me, then it's out of Vegas ;)

And then hearts would break all over the country... :D

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:45 AM
And then hearts would break all over the country...:D

Oh, I can't be the cause of broken hearts. Damn the guilt!

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 09:48 AM
Wow, that is one hell of an understanding husband, if he pops up on here starting a thread, I would be worried about the advice we would throw at this scenerio ;)

Ahhhh! It sounds a lot worse than it is, really.

I guess you have to know my hubby, and me, and my ex.

The ex and I knew very early on that we were better off as friends. Yes we dated and stuff, but we were both teenagers. A lot has happened since that time and we remained friends.

If hubby had a problem with it I wouldn't go, no way no how.

Another thing is that we don't really celebrate Valentines day. To us it's just like any other day. I don't need one day each year to show hubby that I love him, I do that every day, so, it's really just another Saturday to us. :)

Okay, keep digging that hole Alty, you've already got one foot in, let's see if you can make room for the other. :o

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:50 AM
Ahhhh! It sounds alot worse than it is, really.

I guess you have to know my hubby, and me, and my ex.

The ex and I knew very early on that we were better off as friends. Yes we dated and stuff, but we were both teenagers. Alot has happened since that time and we remained friends.

If hubby had a problem with it I wouldn't go, no way no how.

Another thing is that we don't really celebrate Valentines day. To us it's just like any other day. I don't need one day each year to show hubby that I love him, I do that every day, so, it's really just another Saturday to us. :)

Okay, keep digging that hole Alty, you've already got one foot in, let's see if you can make room for the other. :o

Especially when I didn't think anything of it and didn't expect the explanation... Told you damn the guilt!

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 09:50 AM
Me thinks I doth protest too much. Darnit! ;)

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 09:53 AM
kctiger agrees: And everyone say it together now...AWWWWWW

Sounds like somebody is looking forward to the Valentine holiday... is that a bit of angst I hear...

kctiger
Feb 12, 2009, 09:55 AM
Sounds like somebody is looking forward to the Valentine holiday... is that a bit of angst I hear...

Yeah... I am not the biggest V-Day guy... just an absolute WASTE of a day, in my opinion.

Romefalls19
Feb 12, 2009, 09:58 AM
Valentine's Day is nothing big, granted I bought the fiancé Uggz and then having a dozen roses delievered tomorrow but we aren't making a huge deal of it.

kctiger
Feb 12, 2009, 09:59 AM
And... on top of that (allow me to vent), the fact that it is an absolute commercialy exploited holiday isn't even the biggest concern I have. It makes every single person without a s/o in their lives feel less of a person... depression hits, you sit there alone, wondering, "What the hek is wrong with me that I have no one special to be with today?"

Commericals shoved in your face about flowers and jewelry...

GIVE ME A BREAK!!

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 10:00 AM
Hubby and I usually just go out for dinner, with the kids (babysitter is way too expensive on V-Day).

Really, it's just a made up holiday so that the greeting card companies can make some money. Don't forget the florists and candy manufacturers too. ;)

Romefalls19
Feb 12, 2009, 10:01 AM
She's been having a rough time lately so the roses aren't just for V-day, not too mention her birthday is Monday. We are spending the day together, taking her to lunch, got her a cake and going to enjoy each others company

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 10:02 AM
And...on top of that (allow me to vent), the fact that it is an absolute commercialy exploited holiday isn't even the biggest concern I have. It makes every single person without a s/o in their lives feel less of a person...depression hits, you sit there alone, wondering, "What the hek is wrong with me that I have no one special to be with today?"

Commericals shoved in your face about flowers and jewelry...

GIVE ME A BREAK!!!

Kc, do you want to come out with me and the ex on Saturday? We're just going
To a pub, nothing special. There's a cute waitress there that he wants to hit on,
I'm pretty sure you'll find someone you fancy too.

I'm a pretty good wing man, or wing chick. Just leave it all up to me. :D

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 10:03 AM
She's been having a rough time lately so the roses aren't just for V-day, not too mention her birthday is Monday. We are spending the day together, taking her to lunch, got her a cake and going to enjoy each others company

Okay, you may just be too sweet for words. I hope she knows that you're a keeper! :)

kctiger
Feb 12, 2009, 10:04 AM
No, I have a date... I just think it is unclassy how a lot of people have to sit there and have this crap shoved down their throat, as if having a boyfriend, or girlfriend, is the end all, be all of civilization... that's my only problem with it.

Personally, I don't care about having a date or not... I like saving money.

Romefalls19
Feb 12, 2009, 10:05 AM
Yep, I think she knows. Well she said yes when I asked her to marry me so I'd hope so ha ha. Truth be told, I'm the lucky one because she is a terrific woman.

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 10:10 AM
No, I have a date...I just think it is unclassy how a lot of people have to sit there and have this crap shoved down their throat, as if having a boyfriend, or girlfriend, is the end all, be all of civilization...that's my only problem with it.

Personally, I don't care about having a date or not...I like saving money.

::cheese standing alone:: I like Valentine's Day ::flinching::

So kc you are already ditching me for another women... geesh, talk about SHORT attention span.

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 10:10 AM
No, I have a date...I just think it is unclassy how a lot of people have to sit there and have this crap shoved down their throat, as if having a boyfriend, or girlfriend, is the end all, be all of civilization...that's my only problem with it.

Personally, I don't care about having a date or not...I like saving money.

I never really took the whole Valentines day thing seriously. There were times that I
Had a date and times that I didn't, I really didn't care which it was.

One of my exes always made a huge deal out of Valentines day. Flowers, dinner, a gift and then a hotel room every darn year. Then he'd do the guilt trip. Look how much money I spent on you, you owe me! After 2 years of dating I realized the pay back price was way too high and broke up with him 2 days before Valentines day. Okay, that may have been a bit mean but I was 18 and didn't know what else to do.

V-day sucks! ;)

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 10:13 AM
Yep, I think she knows. Well she said yes when I asked her to marry me so I'd hope so ha ha. Truth be told, I'm the lucky one because she is a terrific woman.

You're both lucky! I think it's great that you found someone so special. Lately it
Seems that all we hear about is failed relationships, obsessive relationships, abusive relationships. It's nice to hear that there are people out there that make a relationship work. :)

Heck, I've been married 14 years this May. Ahhhh 14 years? That can't be right! Wow, time flies when you're having fun! :eek:

Romefalls19
Feb 12, 2009, 10:17 AM
Yep, I agree Alten. We have a great line of communication, know each other very well(friendship plus a lot of talking before we dated) and just get along very well. Sure we argue, but nothing that is a huge deal that I am worried we won't work it out. They never last more than an hour at tops. The most important thing in a relationship is that its still fun and still exciting for the BOTH of you.

kctiger
Feb 12, 2009, 10:20 AM
::cheese standing alone:: I like Valentine's Day ::flinching::

So kc you are already ditching me for another women... geesh, talk about SHORT attention span.

When I said "date" I meant you... come on now...

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 10:20 AM
Yep, I agree Alten. We have a great line of communication, know each other very well(friendship plus a lot of talking before we dated) and just get along very well. Sure we argue, but nothing that is a huge deal that I am worried we won't work it out. They never last more than an hour at tops. The most important thing in a relationship is that its still fun and still exciting for the BOTH of you.

I have to say that I married my very best friend, my lover, my partner in every way. We're a good team. We argue too, I can be really stubborn, so can he, but we always work it out.

We've been together for 19 years, half our lives. We went from teens to young adults, to a married couple, parents, and I've loved every stage and look forward to all the ones in our future.

He's a keeper too, especially because he puts up with me. :o

Blah, that was really sappy. :eek:

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 10:21 AM
When I said "date" I meant you...come on now...

Are you double dipping KC? :cool:

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 10:23 AM
When I said "date" I meant you...come on now...

Well let me jump all over that! Boy don't we advise against this daily... hmmmm.

kctiger
Feb 12, 2009, 10:24 AM
Oooh... I see how this may turn into a heated argument... well... gotta go girls... duty calls.

Carry on... :cool:

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 10:29 AM
Oooh...I see how this may turn into a heated argument...well...gotta go girls...duty calls.

Carry on...:cool:

Chicken! :D

I've got to run too, lots of stuff to do, got to pick up my buddy from the airport in
A few hours, clean, do laundry, shower, you know, all that fun stuff! :)

Later kids.

Justwantfair
Feb 12, 2009, 10:29 AM
Oooh...I see how this may turn into a heated argument...well...gotta go girls...duty calls.

Carry on...:cool:

LOL, go do the good work.

tntdynamite
Feb 12, 2009, 11:11 AM
By the way the OP never said anything about these girls being stupid for the posters that said stuff about that, just cos you have blonde hair and big boobs doesn't mean you have air for brains.

Thank you! And by the way, I've observed this at my high school, for those of you wondering where this study came from. Every girl, every new girl, every young substitute, every young, new, fresh out of college, teacher, if she is anything like the girls I described, for the rest of the day, I have to hear about how "hot" they are. So I guess I just answered my question, and you guys have showed me that there is hope out there, high school guys will grow out of it!

kctiger
Feb 12, 2009, 11:52 AM
High School guys SUCK! Once we grow up, we are actually pretty fun to be around.

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 12:08 PM
High School guys SUCK! Once we grow up, we are actually pretty fun to be around.

Very true. High school boys usually only look at outward beauty, they just can't seem to see the beauty within.

Also, our society, magazines, shows etc. really does make men think that all women should look like models. That's not very realistic, heck, not even those girls look like they do on the magazines, with a bit of airbrushing you too can be a model. ;)

Boys do grow up, as do girls, we can be just as superficial when we're young.

friend4u178
Feb 12, 2009, 03:25 PM
Christian Bale... a WHOLE lot more up my alley... got one of those, M??? ;)


Anything for you J ;)

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Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 04:10 PM
Eh, not doing it for me M. He's a bit too girlie.

friend4u178
Feb 12, 2009, 04:16 PM
Eh, not doing it for me M. He's a bit too girlie.

It was HC's request :rolleyes:

Ps: He does nothing for me either ;)

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 04:18 PM
It was HC's request :rolleyes:

ps: He does nothing for me either ;)

LMAO, really? Are you sure you don't have a man crush on him? Not even a little bit? ;)

I like a manly man. Give me a guy with wind tossed hair, a bit of stubble, maybe even a touch of grey and I'm swooning.

Can you find someone that fits the bill M?

friend4u178
Feb 12, 2009, 04:21 PM
LMAO, really? Are you sure you don't have a man crush on him? Not even a little bit? ;)

I like a manly man. Give me a guy with wind tossed hair, a bit of stubble, maybe even a touch of grey and I'm swooning.

Can you find someone that fits the bill M?

LOL... You know it Alty :cool:

The only thing I don't have is a sense of humour ;)

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 04:30 PM
LOL.............You know it Alty :cool:

The only thing I don't have is a sense of humour ;)

LOL. And you do so too have a sense of humor (okay, I did the bad sentence structure on purpose, just fyi). ;)

Okay M dear, post a picture, I double dog dare you, go on, you know you sort of kind of want to. :D

friend4u178
Feb 12, 2009, 04:36 PM
Okay M dear, post a picture, I double dog dare you, go on, you know you sorta kinda wanna. :D


LOL... you know I can't do that Alty , then people would find out who I really am ;)

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 04:38 PM
LOL.............you know I can't do that Alty , then people would find out who I really am ;)

So I'm special because I know who you really are? Awww, that's nice. :)

friend4u178
Feb 12, 2009, 04:42 PM
So I'm special because I know who you really are? Awww, that's nice. :)

Yeah , sort of in a Vicki Vale type way ;) Now don't you tell anyone :cool:

Alty
Feb 12, 2009, 04:44 PM
Yeah , sorta in a Vicki Vale type way ;) Now don't you tell anyone :cool:

LOL, but you just did! ;)

Oooh, Vicki Vale, me likey. I'm brunette though.

oscarlicous
Feb 17, 2009, 11:28 AM
Unbelievable. You girls are out of control!!

To top it off, he is one of the worst actors in Hollywood...just worthless!

I'm sorry but I think that he is a great actor! Especially in the pacifier.

kctiger
Feb 17, 2009, 11:30 AM
i'm sorry but i think that he is a great actor! especially in the pacifier.

Maybe it is just me, but I don't detect any sarcasm in this... you are joking right? :D

Justwantfair
Feb 17, 2009, 11:33 AM
Maybe it is just me, but I don't detect any sarcasm in this...you are joking right? :D

Awwe kc... we don't want him to make Oscar winning movies with us... just a home movie... he he

kctiger
Feb 17, 2009, 11:47 AM
awwe kc... we don't want him to make Oscar winning movies with us... just a home movie... he he

Anything that Vin plays the lead role in is not considered a "movie." Calling such a thing a "movie" would be a gross over estimation of credit given to him...

Justwantfair
Feb 17, 2009, 11:51 AM
Anything that Vin plays the lead role in is not considered a "movie." Calling such a thing a "movie" would be a gross over estimation of credit given to him...

Ok, now you are being a bit harsh. I like "Fast and the Furious"

Romefalls19
Feb 17, 2009, 11:56 AM
Ok, now you are being a bit harsh. I like "Fast and the Furious"

"ask any racer, any real racer. it don't matter if you wi by an inch or a mile. Winning is winning" - Barf! He was horrible in that movie. It was an "ok" movie but nothing special

Justwantfair
Feb 17, 2009, 11:57 AM
Shoot, now I get the gang busters... two v. one is not fair!

kctiger
Feb 17, 2009, 12:03 PM
And, to make a point (yes, I know we are off topic), Vin wasn't the leading man in that, Paul Walker was. Vin was merely support for Paul's sorry a$$ acting as well. That movie was a clinic for bad acting... any move Ja Rule is in... I would have immediately turned that movie down. The best part of the movie was watching Vin's "sister" in there...

Justwantfair
Feb 17, 2009, 12:06 PM
And, to make a point (yes, I know we are off topic), Vin wasn't the leading man in that, Paul Walker was. Vin was merely support for Paul's sorry a$$ acting as well. That movie was a clinic for bad acting...any move Ja Rule is in...I would have immediately turned that movie down. The best part of the movie was watching Vin's "sister" in there...

I give, I give... geesh. There isn't much accounting for my taste... are we established on that? He is still hot though.

tntdynamite
Feb 17, 2009, 12:14 PM
i'm sorry but i think that he is a great actor! especially in the pacifier.

Sorry hon, he's not that good. I've seen worse though. But people aren't watching his movies for his acting ablities... I must confess, I don't either. Yum.

jmw0713
Feb 17, 2009, 01:31 PM
That movie was a clinic for bad acting... any move Ja Rule is in...

Don't forget Fast and the Furious 2, with our man Tyree.

Bad Guy: "Can I get you boys anything?"
Paul Walker: Insert crappy line here...
Tyree:"You got any food? We hungry!"

LOL, that line cracks me up every time!

Alty
Feb 17, 2009, 03:05 PM
I give, I give.... geesh. There isn't much accounting for my taste... are we established on that? He is still hot though.

Did I show up too late to come to your rescue Justy? Sorry.

Vin is hot, we don't care that he can't act, we just want to touch him, lick him, hug him and stuff. :D

Go Vin!

Justwantfair
Feb 17, 2009, 03:15 PM
Did I show up too late to come to your rescue Justy? Sorry.

Vin is hot, we don't care that he can't act, we just want to touch him, lick him, hug him and stuff. :D

Go Vin!

Did you see it, it was like pure craziness, I can't fight the both of them alone... I don't stand a chance... I am weak I tell you just weak... no more sick children for you, I can't be left unattended. :D

liz28
Feb 17, 2009, 03:25 PM
I for one think Vince is hot and he delivers in his movies and play his role. However I must admit that I think Kevin James is hot too and I would date him in a minute and let me not forget Luke Wilson and will Smith.

Justwantfair
Feb 17, 2009, 03:27 PM
I for one think Vince is hot and he delivers in his movies and play his role. However I must admit that I think Kevin James is hot too and I would date him in a minute and let me not forget Luke Wilson and will Smith.

Kevin James on the hot scale... hmm, see personality does make up for other things. :D

friend4u178
Feb 17, 2009, 03:46 PM
However I must admit that I think Kevin James is hot too and I would date him in a minute and let me not forget Luke Wilson and Will Smith.

Just for you then Liz ;)

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liz28
Feb 17, 2009, 03:53 PM
Thank you very much for the pics Friend4u178. For some reason Will Smith seems very buff in that picture. That must have been shot right after he worked out but woo I don't feel bad for Jada.

liz28
Feb 17, 2009, 03:56 PM
Kevin James on the hot scale... hmm, see personality does make up for other things. :D

Yeah , well his personality makes him hot to me and I don't think he is bad looking at all. Cudding up with him must be very comfy.

friend4u178
Feb 17, 2009, 03:56 PM
Thank you very much for the pics Friend4u178. For some reason Will Smith seems very buff in that picture. That must have been shot right after he worked out but woo I don't feel bad for Jada.

My pleasure Liz , Kevin James though :confused:

There's hope for us all yet LOL ;)

Alty
Feb 17, 2009, 04:05 PM
My pleasure Liz , Kevin James though :confused:

Theres hope for us all yet LOL ;)

M, I've seen pics of you, you're no Kevin James, you're much, much hotter! First
Thing I said when I saw your pic, Tom Selek. You're yummy too sweetie. :)