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timeframe
Aug 5, 2006, 10:03 PM
Hey everybody I got a friend who's name is kelsey and she has I should say had a boyfriend. She went out of town where she lived for about 3 months. She had dated this guy previously she is 15 he is 17. And they broke up because he said he felt like they were brother and sis. So she was hurt usually she doesn't date a second time. But she says she loves this man. So she made an acception. So while she was in branson he didn't call her at all. Not one time. It hurt her. And she broke up with him because on his xanga a women asked him if there were any women in his life at this moment and he said no. so she broke up with him. But now she is regreating it because she doesn't feel whole anymore. I really want to help any advice would be grateful.

s_cianci
Aug 6, 2006, 08:28 PM
She's only 15. There's plenty of fish in the ocean, as they say and I'm sure she'll come to realize this soon. Life changes hard and fast at 15 ; today's love interest is tomorrow's old hat. As it is, this particular guy seems like a wish-wash and she was right to break up with him. She'd be wise to continue staying away from him. He didn't even have the nerve to admit to this other woman he was communicating with on his xanga that there was someone in his life. I certainly wouldn't want a relationship with someone like that and I'm sure you wouldn't either. She can just scratch this one off the list and beware of other wishy-washy guys in the future.

gifted4ever
Aug 9, 2006, 09:05 AM
Time is the greatest healer. In time she will get over him and realise that she's better off loving someone who cares about her too.

When I was 15 I was hurt like that too. She will look back in a year and laugh at how stupid it was to cry over someone so horrible.

She needs to keep herself occupied, start a new hobbie or find a new guy so she can get this guy out of her head

Good luck