We often see that when we are in the bed, doing or relishing sex, we face so much difficulty to avoid the fear of pregnancy, as a child may be conceived, but the prostitutes have to give full and optimum pleasure to her customer and how do they manage the childless stage... as a husband takes care that when the ejaculation is going to take place, he ejects his penis or uses condom or so, but in case of a prostitute, the man has to draw full advantage of his payment and he is least concerned about the future of the lady, whether conceiving or not...

Kindly satiate my curiosity!!

Well, most prostitutes insist on the gentleman wearing protection. Not so much for the pregnancy factor, but rather to stop getting any nasty bugs. Those that do go "solo", usually have a resource for getting abortions if they get pregnant, or are so dependent on addicting drugs, that they will take any risk to keep that habit going. But again, the thought of contracting AIDs, or another disease, keeps most of them insisting on condoms. There is a female condom, but I think that the result is the same for the man. I would also think that any intelligent "John" would be more than happy to avoid trouble and wear one too.

Okay, I got somewhat but there are more queries but I fear they would be objected to! (PS- Or, can I put up my quiries here?)

I guess if a prostitute do get pregnant by on of their Johns, they have 3 options like any other woman that gets pregnant. Keep the baby, have an abortion, or give the child up for adoption.

Okay, I got somewhat but there are more queries but I fear they would be objected to! (PS- Or, can I put up my quiries here?)

If you have more questions, you may as well ask. You may not get answers that you like, but there's no point in just leaving them in your head.

Even thoug I answered this thread I really don't understand what is your concern about what prostitutes do? Don't take this response as being mean but I just don't it.

Over time they do, often they use the morning after pill, have an abortion or even sometimes have a child.

Also not sure of your age, but pulling out is not a method.

Most will always be on the pill, use condoms and hope for the best

Even thoug I answered this thread I really don't understand what is your concern about what prostitutes do? Don't take this response as being mean but I just don't it.

I'm going to guess here, but I think he wants to know how prostitutes give clients pleasure with out the cumbersome aspect of using protection.

I've also moved this to the Adult Sexuality forum where a he may be able to ask the questions he wants.

My concern is about myself. I want to draw full pleasure and give full pleasure to my life partner, but it often happens that use of condom does not give any joy to either, and pullin' it out is something, which leaves the process half-enjoyed as when our sexual intercouse and the delight is at the peak, ejection hampers and cools down the 'so hot' process.

About any other method, other than CONDOMN and PULLOUT is not known to either of us... I stuck to ask the query as they too satiate their customers and do not have plenty of kids, as they should have, even as their profession is only to give maximum sexual pleasure.



I hope, I am not hurting anyone, and neither am I violating any rule of ASKMEHELPDESK.

If your life partner and you are both free of any sexually transmitted disease than you do not need to use a condom.If you are both faithful to one another a condom is not necessary.There are other forms of birth control that are as effective as a condom.

There must be a woman's health clinic where your partner can get information on effective birth control.

First pull out is not a method, people who use that get to be called parents.

And if you don't know what "pills" they are birth control pills, you visit your doctor and/or health clinic and get them. But no method is 100 percent, so if you want to be truly safe, use of pills and condom are best.

There are condoms, and then there are condoms. Have you tried the lambskin or natural ones? These don't protect you from certain diseases but feel more natural.

There is the birth control pill which comes in many types. It contains hormones which prevent pregnancy. There is an injection of hormone, Provera which prevents pregnancy for up to 12 weeks.

She can also, or additionally use a diaphragm or cervical cap. These must be prescribed and fitted by a doctor. There are also sponges which contain spermicide, foam and insertable spermcide "inserts."

If she never plans to have children, or have any more, a doctor can insert an IUD (intra-uterine device) which can be left for several years. If neither of you plans on having children a man can have a simple surgery called a vasectomy.

All birth control can fail, sometimes using two or more metnods at the same time can result in an unplanned pregnancy (this is somewhat rare.) If you read labels and ask questions you can learn what you need to know about it. Prostitutes either use one or more of these things or have had their fallopian tubes tied which results in sterility, pretty much like a vasectomy.

The whole point of getting educated about and using birth control is so that you and your partner can have sex without worrying about having children.

America men overwhelmingly go to prostitutes to receive oral sex.

America men overwhelmingly go to prostitutes to receive oral sex.

Which has NOTHING to do with the question the OP is asking, which is about contraception.

This may sound a little obvious.. but.. I'm on the depo shot.. meaning my man can and not have to worry about pulling out, or using a condom because we are in a monogomous relationship.. meaning ONE PARTNER.. in a prostitutes case.. I would imagine they are on some sort of birth control if they don't use condoms.. and if you're a prostiute do you really think they are in the right state of mind to care if they get knocked up or some disease? They are probably trying gto pay for their drug habit in the first place.. hope that helps

To the original poster...

I'm guessing you are asking about prostitutes because of the high frequency of sex and the related higher risk of pregnancy, right?

As mentioned, "pull out" is not a reliable method. I believe something like one in five women using just this method becomes pregnant. It is never recommended as a reliable method to prevent pregnancy.

You mention that you are not aware of methods other than withdrawl or condom use. There are other methods.

Contraceptive pills is one. IUD use is another. Other methods of timing your cycle also exist, but have higher rates of pregnancy. These may or may not be available where you live. Can you tell us where you live? Do you have a physician? An ob-gyn?

Concerning the frequency of oral given by prostitutes... I do think this can play into the question if you look at "how do they avoid pregnancy"... one way is clearly the use of oral, hand, anal... along with condom use with intercourse and other methods.

Most men go to whores to get get fellatio/ oral sex/ BJ's, *according to studies*.

People don't seem to understand this. Remember, pornography is not a reflection of reality, kids.

I was told by someone that during the fortnight (month of 30 - 7 days before and 7 days after the menuration date) are safe to enjoy any much SEX, and I want to get info about that as I want rather we want to enjoy it natural and absolute,.

(PS- when one is pregnant, is any must and condom-free sex safe? I am just asking as during pregnency people suggested us to have any much sex.)

You and your wife should visit your doctor and discuss birth control methods face to face so that both of you understand every way there can be. Yes, knowing where you live would be helpful, but I am sure all methods, IUD, pills, condoms are accessible to you there ?

But, your posts are confusing, Sukh. It seems that pregnancy is not an issue at this time.

As for sex during pregnancy. If a woman enjoys a happy sex life with her partner and becomes pregnant, then there is no reason whatsoever why she can't enjoy the same experiences during pregnancy. Anytime up to the third trimester is safe, within reason and caution, and different styles are better then others.

I was told by someone that during the fortnight (month of 30 - 7 days before and 7 days after the menuration date) are safe to enjoy any much SEX, and I want to get info about that as I want rather we want to enjoy it natural and absolute,.....

What you are referring to is generally called the Rhythm method. It refers to the fact that a woman ovulates only at specific points in her cycle. Those times are when she is most fertile.

However the rhthym method is one of the least effective forms of birth control. Most women do not have cycles that are so regular then can count on using it.

The most effective form of birth control is a pill but its not 100%. You really need to both vist your partner's OB/Gyn and have a full discussion on appropriate measure of birth control. Another good source for your various options is a Planned Parenthood clinic.

We often see that when we are in the bed, doing or relishing sex, we face so much difficulty to avoid the fear of pregnancy, as a child may be conceived, but the prostitutes have to give full and optimum pleasure to her customer and how do they manage the childless stage.... as a husband takes care that when the ejaculation is going to take place, he ejects his penis or uses condom or so, but in case of a prostitute, the man has to draw full advantage of his payment and he is least concerned about the future of the lady, whether conceiving or not.................

Kindly satiate my curiosity!!!


Think of prostitution as an occupation.

If you were a surgeon doing open heart surgery, would you not protect yourself with gloves? If you drove a truck for a living, would you never use a seat-belt? Of course not.

As an occupation, prostitutes have to protect themselves, and they do not know if a customer has a disease. Nor do they wish to risk pregnancy while working.

If I were a prostitute, knowing the risks of unprotected sex and unwanted pregnancy, I would make sure I reduced the risk as much as possible. There are many ways to do that, and to not protect yourself is taking unnecessary risk.

Unless you live in a third world country or see a crack ho most prostitutes will use protection... not just because of pregnancy.. thats easy to take care of with the pill... but for AIDS and other STD's.

Well prostitutes do not necessarily 'derive pleasure' from their occupation. And the johns, (the males) have to accept the fact that they have to wear condoms. It is a rule of the trade. Now in your case, have you tried lambskin condoms? They are supposedly closer to the real thing. Pulling out is an in-effective method of birth control, as pre ejaculate can contain sperm, and/or control of emission might be off. I agree with ARTLADY and recommend visiting a doctor to see if he/she can give you other alternatives for birth control. If you are both disease free and monogamous, then look at the pill. Otherwise, try lambskin condoms, or condoms combined with a warming sexual lubricant. (I.E. K-Y warming gel), to see if that will help.

This might not apply here but I am mentioning it only because its not common knowledge...

But lambskin condoms do not provide a barrier to STD's.

This might not apply here but I am mentioning it only because its not common knowledge....

But lambskin condoms do not provide a barrier to STD's.

Wow! This I did not know...

I am wondering then, what would be a good latex free way to prevent STD's? I know of one person who found out this way that she had a latex allergy :rolleyes:

Wow! This I did not know....

I am wondering then, what would be a good latex free way to prevent STD's? I know of one person who found out this way that she had a latex allergy :rolleyes:

Abstinence works.

So does waiting to have sex until you KNOW you both don't have STDs.

I'd also like to point out (having known a few prostitutes) that condoms are NOT necessarily a "must" for prostitutes. Many men pay more to ride "bareback"--and it's a significant amount more, and since it really IS about the money, many prostitutes are willing to accommodate them.

Non-latex condoms are only slightly less effective than latex. Both provide protection from STD's.

Latex and Non Latex Condoms (http://sexuality.about.com/b/2006/01/31/latex-and-non-latex-condoms.htm)

Non-latex condoms are only slightly less effective than latex. Both provide protection from STD's.

Latex and Non Latex Condoms (http://sexuality.about.com/b/2006/01/31/latex-and-non-latex-condoms.htm)


True... those are not Natural skin condoms but a better alternative for those with a latex sensitivity but still need the STD barrier as well (like people who are not married and monogomous). Something the natural skin condoms don't provide.

Abstinence works.

So does waiting to have sex until you KNOW you both don't have STDs.

I'd also like to point out (having known a few prostitutes) that condoms are NOT necessarily a "must" for prostitutes. Many men pay more to ride "bareback"--and it's a significant amount more, and since it really IS about the money, many prostitutes are willing to accommodate them.

Oooooo Scarey there. Talk about playing russian roulette. :eek:

I new a couple too (not biblically) but they were high priced call girls. None would take that risk. THey did mention a few did ask, and they were promptly told to look elsewhere if that's what they want... they intend to live to a ripe old age.

If that extra $50-$100 will pay for more food, or a doctor's visit for a kid, or get the electricity turned back on---well, weigh starving against a CHANCE for an STD.

I agree--it is Russian Roulette. But I don't know many (if any!) girls that get into prostitution out of anything but desperation in the first place.

If that extra $50-$100 will pay for more food, or a doctor's visit for a kid, or get the electricity turned back on---well, weigh starving against a CHANCE for an STD.

I agree--it is Russian Roulette. But I don't know many (if any!) girls that get into prostitution out of anything but desperation in the first place.
Oh the couple women I knew were in the $450+ per hour Call girl league... not in that streetwalker group at all. THey really look down on that group, Money doesn't buy anything you want, Money they have... thats chump change for them... and they have fat bank accounts too, they don't NEED to do anything seriously risky (beyond the risk they already take that is.). I know one that permanently retired from the business after 5 years with about $1.5 million in the bank... and no vices (as in drug use, etc). And no high cost lifestyles.

Oh, It was for money... but none of these were out of desperation.

Odd that I ever knew any of them because I have never paid for it (outside of dinner, etc. when I was dating). Well I knew one that went into the business after I knew her for a while ( she wasn't when I first met her) and she introduced me to a few of her friends along the way. I was sort of a friend they knew, they never saw me as or treated me like a client, or a threat. Enough that I knew their real names, in a couple cases their family, and even where a couple really lived as opposed to worked.

Other forms of birth control?

Other forms of birth control?

What about them? Haven't you read your responses?

The most common methods of trying to prevent pregnancy include

- abstinence

- "outercourse" (sex not involving intercourse, like oral, hand, anal, etc)

- fertility tracking (several methods here)

- iuds

- variations on hormone delivery to suppress ovulation (bc pill, depo, patch, etc)

- barrier methods that prevent sperm from reaching an egg (condoms, female condoms, cervical cap, diaphragm)

- surgical methods intended to be permanent (female or male sterilization)

- withdrawal method (pulling out)

- use of chemicals that kill sperm (spermicide sponge, spermicide used with cervical cap, gels, suppositories, etc)

The following link talks about all of these methods...

Birth Control - Planned Parenthood (http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control-4211.htm)

You need to educate yourself and decide what is right for you. We will not do that here. We do not know what is available for you, we don't know where you are and whether you have access to all of these. Some can use hormones or spermacides and some cannot. Availability in different countries and cultures is something we cannot predict.

No matter what you choose, you should at least learn about methods of tracking your cycle and use this in addition to one, if not two, other methods. Each couple needs to find what works for them. Condom use is one of the most popular because it protects against std's in addition to reducing pregnancy. Couples that "double up"... using condoms and another method, like IUD or the pill, greatly reduce their risk.

All that said, my son was conceived while tracking my wife's cycle and using protection. No method or combination of methods is perfect, outside of abstinence.

So... its your turn to read the information provided, then find out what you have available and make informed choices.

I was told by someone that during the fortnight (month of 30 - 7 days before and 7 days after the menuration date) are safe to enjoy any much SEX, and I want to get info about that as I want rather we want to enjoy it natural and absolute,.....

(PS- when one is pregnent, is any must and condom-free sex safe? I am just asking as during pregnency people suggested us to have any much sex.)


I have an aunt who practiced that with a guy she had a fling with and she ended up with getting pregnant, so its not particularly safe, no.

I agree... unless you want kids you have to assume you can get pregnant any time you have sex. Because even during your period its possible.

This is a dumb question...they use condoms. Ive never used a street lady but isnt that logical??? Watch pretty woman.

If you think condoms work 100% of the time then you're dreaming. No form of birth control works 100% of the time, the only sure way not to get pregnant is not to have sex.

Also, you do realize that pretty woman is a movie, it's not reality, not even close.

Is is possible for to get an injection of a female contraceptive called 'depo'. Ask your doctor about it. This lasts for three months and doesn't cost much. It does NOT however stop STD's so unless it is your life partner take precautions.

Is is possible for to get an injection of a female contraceptive called 'depo'. Ask your doctor about it. This lasts for three months and doesn't cost much. It does NOT however stop STD's so unless it is your life partner take precautions.

It's also not 100% effective, I can't stress that enough.

Everyone, there are safer sex methods out there but there's no such thing as "safe sex". Anytime you have sex, no matter how many forms of birth control you use, there's always the possibility of pregnancy and STD's.

So, if you're having sex you may suffer the consequences, no matter how careful you are.