I am always rejected from my boyfriend of 3 years. It was great in the beginning, but now I'm lucky if its once every 3 months. He hurt his back about 6 months ago, but is not willing to try other positions or oral sex to pleasure me. He says he loves me but then never touches me. I feel very loney and have tried discussing this with him and nothing ever changes. I've set the mood with candles,soft music,sexy lauderie and still rejected. I told him he is pushing me away and I don't know what else to do.

I am not sure I have an answer for you I am actually just telling you that I am in the same situation as you. I mean from he constantly rejects me and we have been together for three years. He told mme that he has an injury from college football to his back and that its acting up and that's why he has not been into lately, but I seem to fnd myself wanting to believe his excuses because I need an answer. I think he really has intimacy problems and that after this much time its never going to change and that I need to move on.