View Full Version : Answer me about this dude talking about me wearing weave!
DASCHUND
Jan 22, 2009, 06:29 PM
There is this boy in my class, he is the cutiest boy in the school. But he is always making up raps about people especially me. He is cute, skinny and has curly hair. I wear weave, and every time at the lunch table he always sings a song he made up about me talking about me weave what should I rap or say about him back so he can feel played and so I don't have to look stupid by telling on him?? :mad::o:confused::(:eek:
justcurious55
Jan 22, 2009, 09:09 PM
Huh? What do you mean so you don't have to look stupid telling on him?
0rphan
Jan 24, 2009, 03:12 PM
Just ignore it, by showing him that it bothers you is inviting him to do it all the more.
Eventually he'll fined another kid to rap about.
FLAMEonfire
Feb 6, 2009, 10:39 AM
You still have a lot of time to grow and know how stupid people in this world work! This guy may be "the cutest boy in school" but he has some personal problems that makes him not see himself as "cute" or even as good as others around him or he wouldn't have to be making fun of others. Maybe he has a bad home life where a big brother or another family member puts him down all the time. Maybe his father! But anyone that keeps putting others down doesn't feel good about themselves, so don't let his rap get to you. Remember where it's coming from and feel sorry for him that he's such a mixed up kid! There are times that kids just get mean to see how bad they can make others feel. If you think about it, you know yourself that there are times that you don't feel so good about yourself. Bad hair day, you don't like the way you look that day, you feel you are wearing the wrong jeans or the wrong shirt today? Do you ever feel you just WANT TO BE MEAN! Do you go with it? Do you pick someone to be rotten to, just to make yourself feel better? I think we have all done it. It's something you grow out of. It's something you learn how much it hurts! So you stop! That's when you know that you have grown up...
It could be worse - you could have something really wrong with you like being fat like I was in school and having everybody making fun of you. I grew up - lost the extra weight - became a model and then I laughed at all the people that made fun of me!!
GOOD LUCK and remember how you feel when he's being stupid and making fun of you - it hurts - don't bring yourself down to his level - don't "rap" him back he's not worth your time!
liz28
Feb 14, 2009, 09:01 AM
When people do or something you don't like it's best not to show them your mad. Instead smile or laugh this would piss them off more this words.
The next time this happens say"thank you, isn't my weave nice" than touch it and walk around laughing.
I wear weaves sometimes and know what your going through. At this one job I worked this one lady use to go out of her way to make sure everyone knew I had a weave. When she would say things I just used to say things like "yeah, it might not be my hair but doesn't it look so must better than your hairdo". She used to get mad while I walked away smiling.
verbattered52
Feb 14, 2009, 06:09 PM
Tell him he needs to go to the library and check out more than one book on ettiquette. Surely his rudeness is a simple lack of being taught good manners.
EssenceX123
Aug 4, 2009, 03:47 AM
IGNORE and thts ALL