I was seeing this guy for about 2 months everyday and it was going great. We're both in college, so on winter break we would still talk and message almost everyday. I even drove down to visit him in his hometown. He would tell me that he missed me and he couldn't wait to see me when we got back, how much he liked me blah blah blahhh.. but sometimes he would be a complete and not follow through with things he would say he would do.. and I felt like I was just making up excuses for him like "ohh since were not technically in a relationship i guess i shouldnt expect much". But it was clearly "dating"... so we get back to school and he doenst try to see me for the first couple days, doesn't call or anything. I was like wow why the f would he tell me he missed me and couldn't wait to see me yet he's not even trying?? So I texted him and asked why he would waste time telling me all that crap if he didn't mean it? So we planned to go to the movies and a half hour before were supposed to go he just stops answering me and blows me off.. I was like wow I just got ready for nothing? I wasted MY time on a BOY.. which makes me mad because I never want to be a girl waiting on a guy.. f that.. so then I text him and say don't text me ever again. And the next day he texts me saying "hello sunshine" I ignored! And 4 hrs later he said the same thing and I put "i said dont text me" and he put your gay fine I won't.. the thing is I'm not as upset over it as I thought I would be because I expect this kind of stuff to happen, since it happens so much I feel like. But I just want to know WHY? You know? Like what reason could there be? He acted like he liked me so much. I want to ask why? But I know whatever he says won't be a good enough answer. And I also don't want him to think I give a crap.. but I do care and it hurts and I want to know WHY!? How do you get over asking yourself why? I'm trying to accept it and move on but I just need answers. What should I do?

I think it is shotty and cruel that he blew you off last minute for y'all's movie date. Very bad manners. If the two of you were dating casually and no real relationship has blossomed: I would say ditch the dude.

He obviously is interested in simply sweet-talking and none of the actual action that comes with dating.

I don't think you were "that girl" who waits on a guy or wastes time on a guy. I think this guy was more interested in talk than action. There is no crime in preparing for a scheduled date.

The real offender here is the dude in question. So if you date him further or even accept his phone calls you WILL be wasting your time.

He's shown his true colors. Time to let this one crawl back under the rock he came from. Life is too short to spend it waiting for this guy to get himself together. You've got better things to do! The first of which is to get out there and meet a gentleman who will actually show up for the date you've planned together!

Good luck cherie. Hope this helps.