View Full Version : I think I'm being pressured too have sex.
famousdork1
Jan 21, 2009, 08:38 PM
I'm 14 years old. I'm dating a newly 16 year old. He lost his virginity at 12 :| I haven't lost mine AT ALL. I've only made out with guys. BUT, he keeps asking me if I want too have sex with him, and I keep telling him I'm not ready and he doesn't ever accept that answer. He always replies with something like "baby, you will enjoy it, i promise" or "your never ready!" and stuff like that. But I'm wondering, should I just have sex with him so he will leave me alone about it? Or should I do something else? I NEED SERIOUS HELP.
Fr_Chuck
Jan 21, 2009, 08:43 PM
Dump the jerk, he does not care for you, only his own sexual desires.
A boy that really cares for you will listen, will wait.
famousdork1
Jan 21, 2009, 09:00 PM
Yeah. I'm going too do that. Thank you so much (: I appreciate your help.
southerngalps
Jan 21, 2009, 09:03 PM
There are other things in your life that are more important... like finishing school.
He only wants one thing and that is not love.
Respect yourself. Dump this lowlife.
Rachel005
Jan 21, 2009, 09:16 PM
I'm 16 and my boyfriends 18 he's had sexual partners before me yeahh 3 of them.
One night when we were together he pressured me into it and I regret it totally
I told him that as well but my boyfriend at this time never said things like "your never ready"
Or anything like that and if he did id be on it just like that to leave him. If he's not going to wait for it then he's not worth it.
barbiechick123
Jan 21, 2009, 11:55 PM
Hello famousdork, okay... so apparently you know the answer now, but just remember... don't EVER have sex or do what you don't feel is right because someone is telling you to, your boyfriend (or now ex) does not care about you, if he did he would say "okay, when your ready.." because there is a time when you ARE ready, and 14 is probably not the time.
Good luck, and be careful with who you trust/date.:)
famousdork1
Jan 22, 2009, 09:03 PM
Thank you so much (:
Yesss, I dumped himm.
He's a jerkk and when I did
He acted like he was worth something,
But he wasn't. :]. Thanks a lot <3
I appreciate your help
Xoxo.
barbiechick123
Jan 22, 2009, 11:58 PM
No problem, you're a smart girl!
411Help
Jan 24, 2009, 07:23 PM
Good for you!
Stay above the influence my friend.
NeedKarma
Feb 17, 2009, 12:22 PM
i'm 14 years old. i'm dating a newly 16 year old. He lost his virginity at 12 :| i haven't lost mine AT ALL.
In your profile you state that you are 12 years old.
famousdork1
Feb 17, 2009, 05:10 PM
12? Huh? Leeme go check. Typo. Thanks for telling me (: imma change that.
hellokity017
Feb 20, 2009, 07:23 PM
How can u feel preasure when you say no is no so if u let ureself cause u like it