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bloodyhalo94
Jan 21, 2009, 05:32 PM
My 15 year old friend has recently started smoking marijuana multiple times a day. She drinks when she can. Her grades are dropping. She just got 2 boyfriends in one day and she has basically turned into a two-timer plus she keeps doing things she regrets. I told her I would help her but I don't know how what should I do?

Clough
Jan 22, 2009, 12:09 AM
Hi, bloodyhalo94!

How about letting a counselor at school know about your concerns. I'm sure that if you let the counselor know, that you would like things to be handled in such a way that it didn't look like you "squealed" on your friend, or betrayed her in some way, that it could be done.

It does sound like some adult intervention is definitely needed here, and you really can't and shouldn't try to help her by yourself. Having a number of people working together as a team, who can show her how they really care about her could really help!

Hopefully, others will also be along to address your question.

Thanks!

mishelly3
Jan 23, 2009, 02:24 AM
I agree with clough, there is some reason that she going on theses big benges, shed really need to talk to someone she can trust and then find an adult that you can trust and talk to them. Don't feel bad by teling your trying to SAVE HER LIFE. Drugs kill no to ways about it you are trying to save her from her self, pick yourself a large army and go to war.

Best of luck to you, my prayers are with you