I just split up with my boyfriend just over a week ago who I was with for 3 months and I am really missing him. A couple of days after we had split up I text him saying we should talk he agreed to it I was meant to go up on that Saturday but I found out he had been txting another girl after he had said to me he did want us to try and get back together it really peed me of lol. I don't know if I was maybe over reacting but I finished it completely he dident seem to botherd about it I have tried to be friends with him but he won't talk to me what can I do I want he back so bad! XxXx

Hey and welcome on board!

Why was he first interested to meet up to talk to u on sat? And now he won't even talk to you?

He said he wanted to meet up because he still wanted to be with me and wanted to try and make a go of things again. I don't know why he won't talk to me I haven't heard from him now for a week every time I text him he won't reply to me. XxXx

He isn't worthed then.
You tried you did what u can, so sod him!
He doesn't deserve to be chased and don't give him that satisfaction.

So you wanted him back, and he agreed to talk to you. Then you went ballistic on him because he was "texting" another girl and completely broke it off with him. And now, you want him back again.

Would you want to be with a guy that went ballistic on you anytime some guy sent you a text message?

If a mere text message can set you off like that, I can't blame him for feeling he's better off without you - Maybe you need to take a much closer look at yourself and figure out why mere "talking" can de-rail you so easily.

I know I do realise that now I know I over reacted but he was saying to her he liked her and he needed her that is what peed me of the most XxxXx

And you still want him back after all that?? Reread this whole post and see what we all see.

Yea I do want him back I don't know why I can't forget about him I still really miss him XxXxx

Well if you don't mind sharing him with some one else, because that is what he is about. Love is not that blind and that kind of love is not love its wishfull thinking. I suggest you get over him and do something else besides letting playerboy occupy your thoughts and make a fool of you. The obsession must stop. You deserve better.

Had to spread it tal but well said.

Can't add anymore!

Did we miss something significant here? Did he text her to ask her out? Or to rush to cancel his first date with her because guess what, his girlfriend just called saying she wanted him back? Or what?

Something is missing on this one.

He txt her asking if she liked him and saying he needed her then I asked him if he liked her he said he wernt sure enymore because he don't think she wants to be with him XxXXxX

So are you happy to go for second best?
I know I wouldn't!

It sounds as if he needs somebody and isn't too particular who... there is a word for that: fickle.

And you say you still want him? Hmmmm. Forgive me but I don't understand that either.

Yea I don't know why I still want him back I have realised that now that enyone will do but I'm finding it hard to forget him XxXxx

What you mean anyone will do?

You will.
Time heals and you'll be fine.

3 months is not a very long time. Unfortunately it sounds like he really wasn't all that interested in you ; just something to keep him occupied for a while. Not a very pleasant realization I know but I'd just move on and forget about him.

Its over, get over it. Let him go. You're the one that broke up with him. Maybe now that you know he may be texting somebody else that is why all of a sudden you want him back so bad. How old are you and how old is he. Even if he changes his mind because this other girl may not like him, you need to say NO and move on. Obvously he is just staying with whoever is keeping him happy at the time.

Joe