Lately my boyfriend can't perform and isn't erect like he used to and then hs a fast orgasm is he having sex with someone else or is this from stress?

Is this the same boyfriend that's a married man?

If so, maybe he's having sex with his WIFE.

You are having an affair with a boyfriend who is married and now you are concerned about his ability to perform?

Lets be clear... so far I have not judged... just tried to clarify from your other post...

Let us know...

What the? Beats me why he would be having performance issues..

Holy mackerel.

Is this the same boyfriend that's a married man?

If so, maybe he's having sex with his WIFE.

Yeah... that gets me every time... damned sex with the betrothed...

Wow... you can't write this sh!t and have it be believable... well, maybe skinimax late night crap. Wow. And again. Wow. ;)

My God, the poor man is trying to satisfy two women, who knows, maybe even more, after all, he's proven that he's a cheater. You can't honestly expect him to be screwing his wife every night and still have enough for you. He's only human!

He's only human!

Or not... still... yeah! Uh... or... uh... something.

Its just damn hard to cheer on a woman dating a man who is married and who can't keep it up.

Folks here say he's married!

I would say if he doesn't care to put on a good performance for his mistress, it's all over, girl. In fact, he may have lined up a new mistress already and is giving her his best effort. :)

The man you have been cheating with for 5 years... he has used you enough and you are fed up with him.
The flame has gone out. Send the sh!thead back to his wife with an explanation that you are finishing with him. Let her have a chance to get out too.
I also think that you should look for a single guy next time around, why treat yourself like this. Do you have no self respect?
It is obvious that your respect levels for others is very low. What goes around comes around.