Dararamm
Jan 14, 2009, 05:10 PM
Okay, so I wanted to know if any girls out there are completely comfortable with their boyfriend's ex-girlfriend/s (assuming they stay still in touch)
My boyfriend loves me and adores hanging out with me but I'm bothered by the fact that he talks a lot about his ex-girlfriend...
I kind of understand why he would talk about her every now and then because they're best friends but since he's my first boyfriend ever I don't know if I'm just being overly emotional but I feel weird knowing that he and his ex had sex on the table, I don't want to know these things. I'd rather make my own memories with him then to talk about their old ones.
He talks about how he learned everything he knows about sex from her, how she was the only other girl except for me that he has ever loved and all sorts of stuff they did together.
Before we started dating I told him it didn't bother me that he talked about her but he's really getting into details about their old sex life and activities together.
She's a lot older then me and I compare myself way too much to her =/
Should I mention this to him or just get over it?
My boyfriend loves me and adores hanging out with me but I'm bothered by the fact that he talks a lot about his ex-girlfriend...
I kind of understand why he would talk about her every now and then because they're best friends but since he's my first boyfriend ever I don't know if I'm just being overly emotional but I feel weird knowing that he and his ex had sex on the table, I don't want to know these things. I'd rather make my own memories with him then to talk about their old ones.
He talks about how he learned everything he knows about sex from her, how she was the only other girl except for me that he has ever loved and all sorts of stuff they did together.
Before we started dating I told him it didn't bother me that he talked about her but he's really getting into details about their old sex life and activities together.
She's a lot older then me and I compare myself way too much to her =/
Should I mention this to him or just get over it?