snowhitepanther
Jan 14, 2009, 03:19 PM
Hi there I'm new to this site
But I really need some advice on some stuff... Well I have together for 9 years with my common-in-law husband we have 2 kids.. But his romance love making went out he door and the cuddling too after abo1 1/2 years so we would always fight he would give me what I want for a few days then stop and its been like this for a while now so in the last 2 years I started to sleep with my hubbys cousin which give me great sex and cuddles which is all that it was to be well a year ago he moved in with us and feelings got stronger between us and we agreed there was more here then just sex and they keep getting stronger we always talk about our feelings we get along really great better then my husband at time.. but lately I think both of them have been taking me for granted my husband for a while with him because I let him buy what ever he wants and I cook his meals wash his close give him sex when he needs it let him do what ever he wants he comes home from work eats and sits on the couch or works on his truck or sled.. so I'm left with cleaning up bathing the kids doing the kids home work with them putting them to bed and all that stuff then my husband exspects me to have sex too after all that he sometimes help out but he always gets snoty when I ask him to do stuff and now in away I think the cousin is starting to take me for granted for sex now to in the last 3 weeks he comes home and spends a day with me we have sex and then he is gone for 3 days he doesn't even text me no more.. but he says he likes me a lot but I starting to feel like I'm just here when they both need me and its starting to bug me a lot I feel no one wants me for me anyway someone help me with this
There is more to al the story but this is the short one
But I really need some advice on some stuff... Well I have together for 9 years with my common-in-law husband we have 2 kids.. But his romance love making went out he door and the cuddling too after abo1 1/2 years so we would always fight he would give me what I want for a few days then stop and its been like this for a while now so in the last 2 years I started to sleep with my hubbys cousin which give me great sex and cuddles which is all that it was to be well a year ago he moved in with us and feelings got stronger between us and we agreed there was more here then just sex and they keep getting stronger we always talk about our feelings we get along really great better then my husband at time.. but lately I think both of them have been taking me for granted my husband for a while with him because I let him buy what ever he wants and I cook his meals wash his close give him sex when he needs it let him do what ever he wants he comes home from work eats and sits on the couch or works on his truck or sled.. so I'm left with cleaning up bathing the kids doing the kids home work with them putting them to bed and all that stuff then my husband exspects me to have sex too after all that he sometimes help out but he always gets snoty when I ask him to do stuff and now in away I think the cousin is starting to take me for granted for sex now to in the last 3 weeks he comes home and spends a day with me we have sex and then he is gone for 3 days he doesn't even text me no more.. but he says he likes me a lot but I starting to feel like I'm just here when they both need me and its starting to bug me a lot I feel no one wants me for me anyway someone help me with this
There is more to al the story but this is the short one