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lovedrummer87
Jan 14, 2009, 12:18 PM
Hello I am 21 years old, male, from MI
And I am in a really hard relationship and its kicking my butt I am so scared to be alonei see everyone else happy and enjoying each other it hurts my heart so bad cause I feel as though I have someone but then I don't because I don't ever see her... I worrie so much about it... I love this girl but it doesn't look like it will last.. its kind of like "slow dancing in a burning room" and it's really taking a toll on me.. but I am scared to leave her I just need some help thanks for listing

ja77
Jan 14, 2009, 12:24 PM
Hi and welcome to the forum -

Can you please give a little more info into what has been going on so we can see if we can help.

What are the main issues you are having.

Thanks

Choux
Jan 14, 2009, 12:27 PM
It is a numbers game, Michigan guy. :)

Find the courage to say HI to five girls a day... ask a girl out to coffee or whatever and start a conversation. Because you are shy, you have to just plough into it... you will gain confidence very quickly... at five a day, probably be very fluid in your approach in two weeks. :)

As you get more courage, that courage will transfer to other areas of your life.

Very best wishes,