I'm almost 20 years old, and I'm waiting for marriage to have sex with my future wife. But I have a few questions now. I heard from someone that there's a number of things a guy is supposed to do during sex, such as:

Rub her back and butt
Repeat her name over and over again
Scream her name during orgasm

Are these true?

There is no one thing you are suppose to do, You do and say what you feel.

May I ask what country you are from, not sounding too rude, it does not sound like a 20 year old posting,

You go with the flow what ever turns you both on and you both enjoy.

Maybe these links will be of some use to you --

Great Sex Guide (http://www.sexual-health-resource.org/great_sex_guide.htm)

Amazon.com: The Good Sex Guide - Series One and Two: Chris Langham, Sara Crowe, Caroline Langrishe, Clive Mantle, Neil Morrissey, Tessa Peake-Jones, Julie Peasgood, Gary Webster, Margi Clarke, Peter Benedict, Philip Herbert, Robert Bathurst, Martin H (http://www.amazon.com/Good-Sex-Guide-One-Two/dp/B00005N5R0)

Some women like it when you rub their back... some don't.

Some women want you to scream their name... some don't.

MOST women don't like it if you scream someone else's name.

Absolutely not... have you or your "friends" you been watching porn?

1. keep a face to face situation with a new girlfriend;sex is PERSONAL.
2. phoney
3. phoney


Best wishes, :)

For a guy who is waiting to get married before he has sex, I would have though the reason for this would have a deeper meaning a more considered understanding of the intimacy involved. Yet you surprise me with superficial childish questions about sex. It makes me wonder if you are really 20 years old and if you are just goofing with your buddies or by yourself.

I have a strong feeling that we probably won't be seeing you post again here.

Hopefully I'm wrong and you can learn more about the intimacy between man and wife rather than a sexual to do list which is meaningless in the real world of marriage.

Dear, Oh dear.

Do what you feel like doing and do what you think will be pleasurable to her.