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cindy916650
Jan 8, 2009, 11:38 AM
Can I marry my 9 year old boyfriend and I'm 16 can we marry in reno n.v

Stratmando
Jan 8, 2009, 11:44 AM
You may have to wait until he is 16.
Hopefully the 7 years will pass quickly.

Starbucks21
Jan 8, 2009, 11:45 AM
Do your parents consent?

The only way you can get legally married to him is with your parent's consent

Nevada Marriage License Information -- Getting Married in Nevada (http://marriage.about.com/cs/marriagelicenses/p/nevada.htm)

Though you do seem a little young so why do you want to get married to a guy who is 25 and why can't you wait a few year?

Emland
Jan 8, 2009, 11:47 AM
Are his parents aware that you are dating?

You are old enough to possibly face child molestation charges.

Starbucks21
Jan 8, 2009, 11:48 AM
You may have to wait until he is 16.
Hopefully the 7 years will pass quickly.

Wait sorry I thought she said he was nine years older...

A nine year old is too young to date and you could face child molestation charges

Emland
Jan 8, 2009, 11:50 AM
OP: Do you mean 9 or 19? Big Big Difference

adam_89
Jan 8, 2009, 11:51 AM
Is that what you meant to say? He is actually 9? I think that is not what you meant to say or maybe your parents really need to have a talk with you.

Stratmando
Jan 8, 2009, 11:52 AM
I'm sure she meant something else, I couldn't pass it up. I think they have been together for 9 years, and don't know his age.
Take Care

Starbucks21
Jan 8, 2009, 11:53 AM
These ages do have a tendency to make a difference...

You said he was older in the title so I assume he's not 9 but

Cindy? Is he 19... or is he 9 years older than you?

adam_89
Jan 8, 2009, 11:54 AM
It could be 9, 19 or 25 depending on what she meant. Those are huge differences. I think she meant 9 years older according to the first asked question

Stratmando
Jan 8, 2009, 11:54 AM
If so, where were you when I was 9.

adam_89
Jan 8, 2009, 11:56 AM
If so, where were you when I was 9.

Haha, yea what kind of 9 year old used to could have got a 16 year old. But the maturity level is so off. In today's world though things are so messed up

Emland
Jan 8, 2009, 12:57 PM
Sorry, I think I started the confusion.

I don't read the title questions, I hover over the questions with my mouse and read the actual post. Didn't see the "older than me" part.

However, don't think a 25 year old should be having anything to do with a 16 year old though. You both need to be dating people your own age, maturity level and life experience.

Starbucks21
Jan 8, 2009, 01:26 PM
To be honest. I'm not a fan of teen bride weddings, it's just a big commitment and huge step. If your parents think you are making the right decision and he agrees to marry you... nothing can really legally stop you.

adam_89
Jan 8, 2009, 02:30 PM
I agree with what they are saying