I have 2 friends (T & A) Once T & A got into a fight. T & A are not friends. I am friends with A and I do not know if T is my friend. My friend says not to be friends with her because she does mean stuff. I don't know. 2marro I have art. I don't know what to do!

Do what you want to do. I have many friends that dislike each other and have problems. Don't listen to what anyone says. It's always better to find out for yourself. One of my closest friend wouldn't even be one of my friends if I listened to all the talk around school. Turns out everyone was wrong.

Hi, Musicluver1998!

My advice is to try to stay out of any arguments and just go about what you need to do to be the best person that you can be in order to set a good example for others to follow.

Always work for peace and try to be friends with those who'll let you be friends with them. Not everyone can be friends with everyone else. It's just a fact of life.

Thanks!

I agree with the above posters. Don't get caught up in the arguments. If one of them doesn't want you to talk to the other, explain to them that you are both their friends, and you would rather stay out of the argument, but it does not mean that you dislike them; simply rather stay neutral.

Thank you all! Today, I will talk to both friends to see what is wrong. Maybe after I know what is wrong, I could figure out how to solve the problem. But if it still goes on, I will tell my friend A to ignore T and hang out with some other friends.

Thank you all! Today, I will talk to both friends to see what is wrong. Maybe after I know what is wrong, I could figure out how to solve the problem. But if it still goes on, I will tell my friend A to ignore T and hang out with some other friends.

Just a hint/pointer here:

What is someone else's problem isn't necessarily yours and as such, you don't have to own it or try to solve it if you don't want or need to.

We all have to stand on our own two feet and face the challenges that we have that are ours to own and deal with.

Thanks!