--- Ok well, about 5 months ago my fiancé was working for this sales company and they did not have really any set schedule they all went into work at 8 am and normally got off around 5 or 6 . However in August (he had been working with this company for about 3 or 4 months) he started to not come home until midnight or later wich I thought was funny! He would normally wake me up when he got home , talkfor min. and then go take a shower but when he started to come home later he would sneek in and take a shower and never wake me up , in the morning he would always say he came home earyler then he actully did and then make some excusse for why he was late. This continued for about 2 weeks. Then finally one night he came home at about 10pm and at about 10:30pm his phone rang, It said Andrew, and we don't know anyone by that name, well he said it was some one from work and told me not to answer it, so I didn't and he got in the shower a couple of minutes. Later it rang again and it was andrew. So I answered it thinking that it might be something important,

When I said hello, I heard a girls voice and then she hung up, so I called back and no one answerd, and the voice mall just said you have reached, the phone. So I asked him about it and he said he didn't know I aske dif he was cheating and he said no.

So anyway I looked at my cell ohone records and That number would always call him areound 10:30pm for the last 2 weeks, and he told me this guy had just started at his work a couple of days ago... So anyway I called this number again from my cell phone the following day and a girl answered.. not just any girl his ex girl friend for several years ago like 7 or 8. And she goes on the call me his baby mamma (which I find very offensive) and tells me how he has been at her house every night and graphic sexual things about the two of them.

So later that day I asked him again about the number and he once again said it was andrew so I asked him again if he was cheating on me and he begins to call me paronoide and tells me I need to chill. So finally I tell him that I new everything and that he was a liar, he still acts like he doesn't know what I am talking about for hours and then he finally says yea he got her number and he went to her house one time but nothing ever happened. So I moved out anyway and then moved back in which brings me to where we ar now,

So know this girl has been emailing him and telling him that she is five months pregnant. With is baby and that she wants him to go to the docotrs appts. With her to find out the sex. And he deines that he ever had sex with her and says that it is not his baby, He says that she is just crazy! I don't know what to believe or who to believe?

... seriously?

After all that, you don't know what to believe?

Let's say in a world where no one lies, cheats, or steals, let's say, that your fiancé is NOT cheating on you. Then you have to wonder...

Why is he coming home so late every night?

Why did he name his "ex" "andrew?"

Why did she call so often?

Why did she say all this stuff about him coming over, when in fact, if he was coming home to you, then you can easily tell her, "Actually, he was at home...so no idea what you're talking about"

Yes, the ex has reasons to lie to you and tell you all these things to ruin the engagement... but it really doesn't seem that way, does it?