Hi,
I am kind of confused about something, I have been dating my b/f for a year and one month. During our courtship I found out he was still talking to his x on the phone , he told me he was not calling her she was calling him, but I checked his phone and I saw he was calling her to so he lied, not only was he doing that but I found out he was talking to other girls to. He would stay out all night and not come home until the next day on some days, he would not answer his phone when I call him, he would make a lot of excuses to why he was doing this like he was hanging with his friends, and family. He drinks a lot. And fight sometime about all this, so I told him to get out because I didn't want to go through this anymore, he said no he loves me he didn't want to leave. I sat all his things out side and called him to pick them up. He did , we just had a baby on Oct 1st 2008. He is a good dad and provider I still in love with him. He have been gone for a month going on 2 months now I miss him and I have given him time to think and make up his mind on what he wants to do regarding me and the children. I told him I'll help him with what ever he wants me to help him with if he comes home but he keep giving me mix signals like one min he wants to be with me then he just want to be friends what should I do?:confused:

He may be your babies daddy, but he is a rolling stone also, and expecting that to change is not rational, or realistic.

You may miss his presence, but his bad behavior deserves no reward from you, and the worst part is you can't help him do anything but cheat on you some more.

Sorry, but he is a piss poor excuse of a partner, and you should never let him do it to you again.

Thanks you talaniman, I know you are right.