hey. I'm so completely confused on what to do... last summer I met this really cute guy at camp... he's 18 and I'm 16... we flirted and kept in touch (he lives like an hour away) and he called me every night and we talked for a couple hours until school started. We even met up and hung out... well school started and we kind of stopped talking until randomly one night he texts me out of the blue and is like hey and told me he had a girlfriend... less than a month later I had to go to a thing at his school and the whole time I was there he was starring at me kept giving me hugs and stuff and then texted me for a couple weeks after... in the texts hed say stuff like hey babe or you looked good... stuff you shouldn't be saying when you have a girlfriend... he was even suppose to come to my birthday as a surprise a couple weeks later... lately we talked again and this time the texts got even more weird hed be like I got a ticket so I can't drive but you should really come see me some time I promise it'll be worth it and how I should send him pics and stuff... then his girlfriend came back into town and he's stopped texting me... what's going on it doesn't seem like he likes his girlfriend but yet he satyed with her?am I just a booty call or is he just staying with her until I come? Because while trying to surprise me for my birthday he talked to my best friend and he said he wasn't planning on having a girlfriend for much longer well he couldn't come cause of his sisters birthdays and they are still togerther. I don't know what to do or think... please help and tell me what you think


PS: typically I wouldn't worry about this because he's a senior... but were both going to in state schools and the ones he's planning to go to are close to where I live

He has a girlfriend that means he is off limits - just advise him that you can be friends but nothing more of it because he is taken, I would also advise him that what he is texting you is not on.

Find yourself a nice single guy in your own area, he is being a little childish and acting like a player, do not allow yourself to be played, move on.

You're not a booty call yet, but you already know the basis for this is being lain. Don't participate.

You like him. Fine. Still doesn't change reality, does it?

You can walk away from something you like that leads to your life being worse off than before, right? Snuggling up next to a guy who can flirt with you this strongly while committed to someone else... that's not an improvement in your life to win a guy like that, is it?

Is it?