I can't love any guy whenever I get closer to the boy I like ,something happens and I want to stay away from him. Then few days pass
I want to be with him again then the same things happen again why am I running away from being in love

Have you been having this problem for a long time, or did something happen in your life in the past that has led to you acting this way?

I mean have you had problems with past relationships.

How old are you?

Such a load of rubbish!You either want him or you don't want him.Make up your mind girl!!

annie sos : Such a load of rubbish!You either want him or you don't want him.Make up your mind girl!!

Annie that is a bit of a sweeping statement.

Sometimes in life things are not always Black or White.

It could be a commitment issue, a lot of people have them. You say you do want to be with him. Explain what you are feeling, he might understand. Maybe you aren't ready for a serious relationship, and all you can do is wait and see. Take things slow, don't act on impulse, and make sure you want a next step before you take it.

Good luck

Sounds like you've been hurt in the past or there is something about the guy that doesn't sit rightwith you. Get in touch with what and who you really want. Also, realize that if someone hurt you in the past that is not this guy. He may hurt you eventually who knows? But usually after the hurt yo relaize there was something good in it too. I would say figure out what and who you want and then you'll feel good about things. Also, don't feel you have to be with anyone. If things continue to go downhill you may want to get a professional involved.