View Full Version : He pre-came, chance of being pregnant?
aliciaa-
Jan 2, 2009, 12:59 PM
okay, to the point, me and my boyfriend had sex the other night, twice. the first time, he wore a condom and only pre-came, then went to pee, came back to me and we did it without protection but he didnt ejaculate, is there a chance of being pregnant? i know you will say i should take the morning after pill, but i cannot get out of the house as im grounded at the moment and live in the middle of no where.. it is now the 2nd January and the unprotected sex happened 31st - 1st..( it was soemthing like 11:58 to 12:03 by the way).. i also live in the UK, and know where i can get the morning after pill, but like i said i can't at the moment, your answers would be greatful! thankyou :)
JudyKayTee
Jan 2, 2009, 01:15 PM
okay, to the point, me and my boyfriend had sex the other night, twice. the first time, he wore a condom and only pre-came, then went to pee, came back to me and we did it without protection but he didnt ejaculate, is there a chance of being pregnant? i know you will say i should take the morning after pill, but i cannot get out of the house as im grounded at the moment and live in the middle of no where.. it is now the 2nd January and the unprotected sex happened 31st - 1st..( it was soemthing like 11:58 to 12:03 by the way).. i also live in the UK, and know where i can get the morning after pill, but like i said i can't at the moment, your answers would be greatful! thankyou :)
Yes, there's always a chance you can get pregnant. Nothing is fool proof.
You also posted in November, afraid that you were pregnant.
I believe you are 14 - maybe you should be a little smarter about having sex. If you're so young you can be grounded you are too young to be anyone's mother.
aliciaa-
Jan 2, 2009, 01:16 PM
That wasn't helpful AT ALL?
JudyKayTee
Jan 2, 2009, 01:23 PM
that wasnt helpful AT ALL?
You asked if you could be pregnant. I said you could. What else did you expect?
You post once a month that you "could" be pregnant. Expect some advice about your decisions.
I question why children are allowed to post on adult boards.
aliciaa-
Jan 2, 2009, 01:25 PM
Something more detailed, and no need to be abnoxious!
snookie82
Jan 2, 2009, 01:32 PM
Well to start your chances for becoming pregnant , that is if what you said was true are are about 35-50%. If he went pee after he so called pre-came he more or less ejaculated into the condom and started on round two. If he orgasmed he ejaculated even though it may have seemed that nothing was there. So the second time without a condom, did he orgasm and ejaculate? There is still a chance for becoming pregnant even though he did not ejaculate. Pre- does contain sperm and can come out of a male at all times or any time during intercourse especially if he already orgasmed and came. So you must way out your options and make an executive decision as a pregnancy test will not work at this time and your time for EC emergency contraception is over as it must be taken in the first 72 hours after unprotected sex. Hope this helps
aliciaa-
Jan 2, 2009, 01:37 PM
The first time we did it, this was with the condom he "pre-came" he didn't orgasm either of the times, nor ejaculate the second when we were unprotected.
If the time for ec is already up, what do I do now?
snookie82
Jan 2, 2009, 01:44 PM
Well there is a chance that you may be pregnant. However in my opinion you may not be. I would wait it out as you have nothing else that you can do right now. If you get your period in due time? Than you are in the clear and consider yourself lucky. If you do not receive your period within one week of you schedualed period time then you must seek professional assistance and possible abortion options if that is what you choose. Be more careful and always use protection and or birth control
aliciaa-
Jan 2, 2009, 01:46 PM
Thank you so much, you've helped a lot!!
snookie82
Jan 2, 2009, 01:49 PM
Not a problem be safe take care
JudyKayTee
Jan 2, 2009, 02:05 PM
Well there is a chance that you may be pregnant. However in my personal opinion you may not be. I would wait it out as you have nothing else that you can do right now. If you get your period in due time? Than you are in the clear and consider yourself lucky. If you do not recieve your period within one week of you schedualed period time then you must seek professional assistance and possible abortion options if that is what you choose. Be more carefull and always use protection and or birth control
I'm sure you are aware that OP is a minor in the UK and would need parental consent as well as the recommendation of 2 Physicians in order to have an abortion.