HELLO THERE... AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR TO EVERYONE

Well lets start

1)Background history

Me and my girlfriend are together for 1year and 3 months.

I had to go away (not emotionally) for a long period... for the most of this period (which was very difficult for me) she was supportive. And I got back 5 months ago

Well someone could say that she is the best woman...

3 months ago she told me that we should have a break (not a break up)... I said OK
I asked if she was interesting for someone else and she denied it... I just want to be with friends she said... All of this time she (almost every day) use to ask me to go for a walk, to stay in my place... etc... things that we use to do when we were together... the fact is that sometimes she wanted to be together and other times she was telling me that we are on a break... So I (like a fool) was keeping to accept her suggestions for being together sometimes (sex included)... A month ago we had a short of a fight and I told her that I don't want to be with her any more... Her reaction to this was to start cry and asked me not to break up... for once more(like a fool) I accept it... last week she told me that we should not be in touch for a period and after three days she called me to her place... and after that she once more told me not to see each other
She told me that it is okay to see other people but when she saw me talking with another girl she got mad...
2) my current situation

--> I'M WITH ANOTHER GIRL AND THING ARE GOING WELL SO FAR
--> I HAVEN'T COMMUNICATE WITH MY EXFOR 3 OR 4MONTHS NOW
--> I ALSO AVOID TO SPEAK TO HER ON TIME WHEN I Accidentally SAW HER

3) Question

I SENT AN SMS MESSAGE JUST SAING HAPPY NEW YEAR FOR 2009. AS I SENT TOOTHER PEOPLE TO. I DIDN'T GOT ANY REPLY SO MY QUESTIO IS... WHY SHE DIDN'T REPLY TO MY MESSAGEAFTER ALL IT WAS JUST A WISH FROM SOMEONE SHE KNEW AND WAS WITH. I Don't SAY THAT THIS THING DIDN'T BOTHER ME

P.S. I BELIEVE THAT SHE IS AWARE THAT I'M WITH ANOTHER GIRL NOW

BEST REGARDS

Well if she is the one that broke up with you, she had no business being mad at you for "talking" to another girl. BUT, you are sending out mixed signals to her. You have a new girlfriend, you avoid her when you see her, and then you send her a message! Why would she reply to you?

I think your new girlfriend is getting a raw deal here. Your ex knows of the new girl, yet you are messaging her? You obviously haven't gotten over your ex, and she likely doesn't like the fact you ignore her in public when your girlfriend or other friends are around, but you are making an attempt at contact in a message. How do you think your new girlfriend would feel if she knew that you were thinking of your ex and contacting her? I would break it off with the new girl before she gets hurt, and work on getting over your ex, and on yourself. If your ex wanted to reply to you she would have.

HAPPY NEW YEAR! :)

This message was only mention happy new year... I sent this kind of message to many people I know and I do mean my wishes... actually she is the one that avoid me... As for my new girlfriend I told her that I sent a happy new year message to my ex... moreover I do not believe that when you wish to someone such kind of wishes is wrong... I am not saying that I want my ex back, no way, but why would someone show this kind of attitude towards me

Why are you making a big deal of this? She has no obligation to reply to you, just as you had no obligation to send anything. My ex, whom I dated for nearly five years, didn't send me anything on New Year's Eve, nor did I send her anything. Focus yourself on your current girlfriend, and quit reading so much into the actions (or lack thereof) of your ex. Perhaps she is hurt that you send her mixed signals while you are WITH someone else... who knows, and frankly, you shouldn't really care. Don't let this offend you. Move on. You did what you thought was right by wishing everyone a happy new year, and she obviously did what she felt was best for her, by not responding. Fair enough?

No one here knows what her motives are, but maybe she is jealous, and enjoys giving you a hard time because she knows it freaks you out. Leave her alone, and for get the friendly gestures.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/break-but-246725.html

I hope you take the hint sooner or later, or at least listen to what you have already been suggested.

Stop breaking No Contact, and it's that simple.

Why should be jealous... she is the one who gave an end to the ralationship... well I don't mind if she didn't reply but this fact trigger me someway... well life goes on

You've unresolve feelings for this your ex because if you sent her a text wishing her a "Happy New Year", I don't understand why your so upset that she didn't reply. If she did, would this make you happy or feel better.

You should be focus on your current girlfriend and stop focusing on things you can't control.

Maybe she moved on and since you've already let this thing go and live your life and let her live hers.

It's a new year so don't drag the things from 2008 into 2009. Now go do something with your girldfriend.