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shaunai16
Dec 31, 2008, 10:29 AM
Im 16 turning 17, and my boyfriend is 19 turning 20.
We've been dating for 1 year and 2months.
We don't usually argue, but I find it very often were arguing about stupid things and when we do realize it we make up and don't have a problem after that.
But sometime during this week we got in a really bad argument that was basically leading us to breaking up. All because of what I said, which was love is stupid!
He really had me pissed so I said it, but I never meant it.
Anyway he says he still loves me, but I don't know if it's just me or what, it sames like he loves but like doesn't care about me. His attitude towards me sames kind of different ,ever since we had that argument.
Like before we used to argue, he would always ask about how I feel if he was to go out or to do anything really! Now if he asks me and I tell him how I feel its like he doesn't care, because I'm used to the fact, when I say I don't wan you to go out tonight or whatever he would take it in consideration and stay home. Now he'll still ask me how I feel, but he won't take it in consideration like he use to.

Does he still care about my feelings?

talaniman
Dec 31, 2008, 11:08 AM
He probably does, but still has a right to do as he pleases. That's not something to argue about. That's something to understand and accept.

Him telling you his plans is a respectful courtesy, you telling him what to do, is bossy.

If you don't make a big deal out of it, then you won't have to argue.