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kthilak
Dec 31, 2008, 12:14 AM
Hi
I'm a male and I need to know which is the right age to get married? Marrying soon is good...

ChihuahuaMomma
Dec 31, 2008, 12:19 AM
I don't think that there is a right age to marry. That depends on when you find the right person for you. How old are you? Are you currently in a relationship?

Nestorian
Dec 31, 2008, 12:25 AM
Kthilak, There is no real way to tell when you should get married. But I'd strongly suggest that you look at your reasons for getting married. And see if your partner's reasons are like that of your own.

Important, be totally open and honest, or things will get dicey and or painful.

Peace be with you.

Nestorian
Dec 31, 2008, 12:32 AM
P.S. Look up the Thread "Men are Men"
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I hope you enjoy.

kthilak
Dec 31, 2008, 03:56 AM
I don't think that there is a right age to marry. That depends on when you find the right person for you. How old are you? Are you currently in a relationship?


Im 29 years...

KertAllikvee
Dec 31, 2008, 07:08 AM
There is no right age for that... If two people are in love and want to spend the rest of their lives together then they get married

Blogg
Dec 31, 2008, 08:22 AM
I don't think age would be the main problem for male (even my parents suggest me around 24-28 y.o. by calculating that we still have enough time to teach all thing that our child needs to know and see them grow to an adult without being too old)
Perhaps maybe you should consider about your finance, future plan, etc, to face with all possibilities.
You are not live for your own when you married.. :D

Starbucks21
Dec 31, 2008, 04:34 PM
There is no right age... I've heard of 18... 21... 26... 29... 36... 42... 54... all the way to 83

It's more a matter of finding a guy you are happy with and having a good loving relationship with him.

As long as it's not too much of a whirlwind relationship (being first date... "MARRY ME, VELMA!!!") or a bad one in general (where you 2 do nothing but argue) you're good.

Don't find a guy... Find the guy

Starbucks21
Dec 31, 2008, 07:17 PM
Correction... gender of preference that is of someone's orientation (in this case I believe girl)

rose1111
Dec 31, 2008, 07:55 PM
I thinkthat age is subject to the country you're in. A lot of people judge others by what they do and other peoples approval does make a difference in how you see yourself. Even more important are cultural values because if you or your mate are out of their comfort zone needless confrontations arise. Next is how you were raised because you will do many things your parents did, if you upbringing is quite similar one or the other of you won't jump out of your skin when disiplining begins. Long range goals are important if you want to make it to the end. And the relative path. Time each is willing to spend together. And last but not least, love. See the scriptures, they spell out what love is. Be sure to know your intended mate very well and enjoy the journey, because isn't that what all of us want?

LoveLifeBeHappy
Jan 1, 2009, 08:55 PM
Some people get bored faster, some people want to start a family early and some people just want commitmnt. All depends on the person if you ask me.

liz28
Jan 2, 2009, 09:44 AM
When the two people are over 18 and mature enough to handle a marriage. They should be compatible and able to communicate well with one another. Having trust won't hurt either and marriage is ful of compromise. Also, living together before marriage can help too so that your able to see if your can live together because your be surprise how many people can't after exchange of vows.

One more thing if your having problems before you get marriage then address them because a ring would make the problems magically go away. And don't ignore any red flags.

lady_fang66
Jan 3, 2009, 10:55 AM
I'm 21 and my parents wanted me to wait. But I knew what was best for myself. What's best for you? There is no "right" age

artlady
Jan 3, 2009, 11:05 AM
There is no one age.I have met people in their thirties who were not as mature as people in their teens.It depends on your level of maturity and your ability to commit to someone for life.
Age is not the only factor that is important here to make such a lifelong decision.
You must have experienced life to some degree and you need to have been independent from your parents for a good stretch of time,these are all factors.
Marriage is not to be taken lightly and certainly never rushed into. Look at the divorce rates!