Hi,

I have completed almost 1.5 years of marriage. Now we plan to have a baby and find it difficult to start. There's something fear in the mind, maybe of hurting or pain during having sex. Please suggest as to how can we overcome the same and enjoy a happy life? Also how to start having sex for having a baby?


Thanks.

When I had sex for the first time it didn't hurt at all. I say just go for it. Even if it does hurt, it probably won't be that bad and it won't last for that long.

How often do you have sex? Do you have pain regularly during sex? Have you seen a doctor about this?

As for having sex with the hopes of conceiving, you should start by tracking your cycle, trying to determine when you ovulate and then go from there.

I don't know how good the following link is, but it's worth a look.

Pinpoint your fertile days with FertilityFriend.com (http://www.google.ca/aclk?sa=L&ai=CuExzTIteSYHrBqbiM4fYuZYG2NfLkAG-r-3bAZrYs5ABCAAQASgCUMidlJj7_____wFg_YjxgMgDyAEBqgQW T9Cy4VbgIkWPpkIl4Dj6A6_FhDbjvg&sig=AGiWqtzyC0rCiXyDz3RZCSRCy-haTCUhvw&q=http://www.FertileDays.com/sm/156/short.html)

Good luck.

Have you had sex?