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ABagola
Dec 29, 2008, 04:38 PM
Can anyone please help me look for my dad I haven't seen him since I was born. And I don't know nothing about him I'm 15 years old. Please help me my dad's name is Wayne Carl Bagola jr.:)

JudyKayTee
Dec 29, 2008, 04:56 PM
Can anyone please help me look for my dad i haven't seen him since i was born. and i don't know nothing about him im 15 years old. please help me my dad's name is Wayne Carl Bagola jr.:)



I'm sorry but because of your age - you are, of course, underage - I suspect you will not get a lot of assistance on this board.

You may wish to do a search on your own at Zabasearch or something similar.

this8384
Dec 29, 2008, 05:02 PM
Have you talked to your mom about this? I don't know what the details surrounding your situation are but I'd like to share my own experience.

My paternal grandfather walked out on my grandmother, my dad and my uncle when my dad was only 4 years old and nobody has heard from him since. Growing up, no one in my family ever talked about him; I always wondered where he was, what he was like, what he looked like, etc. Even though I loved my grandfather, who adopted my dad and my uncle, I still had a desire to meet my blood relative. However, I got much older and learned that he had been verbally, physically and emotionally abusive to his family - to the point that he refused to give my grandmother money for groceries.

Maybe not in your case, but some stones are better left unturned. Good luck to you, either way :)