John_Arthur
Dec 29, 2008, 01:48 PM
Good evening,
First of all, English is not my mother language (French is) so feel free to correct anything wrongly expressed - tks.
I'm 23 (man) - she's 38. We work in the same company in Paris. We're both single.
We have known each other for about two years now and have been doing stuff together for the past 8 months. Our main activity since the first time we did something out of work together, consists in going out for diner and then watch a movie in a theater. From time to time we do other stuff too (long walks in the city, watch a play, spend the day together doing all kinds of things,. ).
It has been 3 months now since I first started to have feelings for her (not friendship wise) and I still haven't told her a word about this.
I haven't said anything yet because :
- we work together,
- I don't want this to end,
- she's 15 years older than me and wants to settle down (I can't possibly think of having kids already).
It's getting more and more painful to think about her all the time without being in a relationship with her.
I don't really know what to do.
Thanks in advance for your wise advices!
First of all, English is not my mother language (French is) so feel free to correct anything wrongly expressed - tks.
I'm 23 (man) - she's 38. We work in the same company in Paris. We're both single.
We have known each other for about two years now and have been doing stuff together for the past 8 months. Our main activity since the first time we did something out of work together, consists in going out for diner and then watch a movie in a theater. From time to time we do other stuff too (long walks in the city, watch a play, spend the day together doing all kinds of things,. ).
It has been 3 months now since I first started to have feelings for her (not friendship wise) and I still haven't told her a word about this.
I haven't said anything yet because :
- we work together,
- I don't want this to end,
- she's 15 years older than me and wants to settle down (I can't possibly think of having kids already).
It's getting more and more painful to think about her all the time without being in a relationship with her.
I don't really know what to do.
Thanks in advance for your wise advices!