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3446
Dec 29, 2008, 03:04 AM
I am 20 and my finance is 21 we have been together for a year now, we are both virgins and I really want to become sexually involved with him but he does seem to want to. I have gotten condoms and other things to try to get him to move forward but he just throws them away. I have asked him y he won't have sex with me and every time I ask he always gives me a different answer ranging from I'm not ready to I'm to tired . I know he is ready he has told me before but I just want to know why he won't commit.

smoothy
Dec 29, 2008, 06:46 AM
Maybe its his way of respecting the virginity of you both. And simply nothing more. YOu can do far worse in a man. Such as one who only cares about getting laid and nothing more like too many his age.

Fr_Chuck
Dec 29, 2008, 07:44 AM
There are many who believe in waiting till marriage.

Synnen
Dec 29, 2008, 08:37 AM
Maybe HE is not ready yet.

If you would not want someone pushing YOU into intercourse, you shouldn't push anyone ELSE into intercourse.

Choux
Dec 29, 2008, 11:49 AM
There could be many reasons including that he doesn't want an accidental pregnancy, disease worries, that he isn't interested in a long term relationship with you, he's conditioned to like oral and masturbation because of porn viewing... and so forth.

You will have to talk in depth with him about this. :)