The move is about a girl and guy who grow up together she is well to do he is not they fall ing love he buys an old victorian house she leaves he rebuilds the house then puts up for sale but chases off all the interested parties then she ends up coming back what is the name of this movie

Do you know approximately how old the movie is? Or any of the actors?

Your description is very similar to the story line of "The Money Pit,"
Starring Shelly Long and Tom Hanks. There's a plot summary at the
Following link:

http://www.ruinedendings.com/film845plot