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YUMMYxSUSHi
Dec 28, 2008, 07:29 AM
I'm only 16 and.. . I'm getting pregnancy symptoms~~

My periods were starting to get regular and just when it started to get regular, I've missed like 2 months of my periods already...

I don't know what was going wrong.. .
I might have gotten pregnant that time I had sex.. .
But we used a condom.. .

I knew I should have went to go get a pregnancy test.. .
But I was too scared ):

I don't know what to do.. . >_<

Now I’ve missed 3-4 months of my period.. .
I'm starting to get morning sickness,
Vomit is just soooo disgusting >.<!!

AND that's not the worst just yet.. .
All this time I’ve not had my periods.. .
My dad knows about it!!
He got my mum to ask if I had my periods recently and I said I have.
But they knew I was lying because they haven’t seen any pads in the bin.

My dad is really mad about it.. .

My mum talked to me like she was really calm.. .
But I don't know how calm she can stay for
Because she asked if I could go see the doctors tomorrow ):
But I said no because I didn't want to go.. .
But I'm not sure if she would force me to go 2moro or not > . <

My boyfriend said he would take me to go doctors but then I don't know how to tell my mum
That I don't want to go with her.. .

She might get mad > . <

My parents don't really like me being in a relationship because they say I'm too young and
They don't like my boyfriend.. .

So what should I do? >_<

I'm really stressed.. .

Please help~~

DoulaLC
Dec 28, 2008, 07:43 AM
You need to find out whether you are pregnant... the not knowing will only cause you to continue to stress about it. If you are pregnant, you will want to start seeing a midwife... if you aren't pregnant, you will want to be sure to use protection, even consider double protection... as in the pill, patch, injection, etc. and a condom.
Yes, your parents won't be thrilled about a pregnancy, but odds are they already suspect anyway. Not facing the possibility isn't helping anyone and can be a risk to you and the baby if you are indeed pregnant.
Find out for sure... take a home pregnancy test, go see your gp for a test there, but find out one way or the other... only then will you be able to get rid of the worry of not knowing.

YUMMYxSUSHi
Jan 4, 2009, 07:17 PM
thanks DoulaLC for your reply! (:

I've seen my doctor 3 days ago.. .

he wasn't sure whether I'm pregnant or not~
he said maybe because it hasn't been 3 months yet.. . = . =

he also pressed the bottom of my belly but couldn't feel any thing there either~

so he gave me an urine container so that they can test my urine.

he said I`ll know whether I'm pregnant or not by Thursday morning when he gets the results.. .


but Thursday is such a long way away >_<
I couldn't wait until Thursday to find out whether I'm pregnant or not~
so I got my boyfriend to buy me one of those pregnancy test > <

and it came out negative.. .

I was really happy when I saw it being negative.. .
but then again
I don't know whether it was accurate or not
& I don't know why I've missed 2 months of period.. .
and why I was feeling so sick on that day.. .


I'm going to check again tomorrow morning to make sure if its really a negative.. .

I really hope I'm just late on my periods.. .

I don't know what to do if I'm really pregnant~~

but if I really am pregnant~~

my boyfriend is always here to give me support (:

DoulaLC
Jan 5, 2009, 11:34 AM
Not sure why your doctor would need to have a urine test sent out, but there is a good possibility your periods are just off. All you can really do for now is wait for the test results.