vanessa51786
Dec 27, 2008, 07:41 PM
I've been seeing this guy (we'll call him "B") for the last year and a half. It was a mess from the start. His ex-girlfriend ("J") was pregnant when we started seeing each other and I accepted the fact that I would be dating a man with a child. (I'm 22, that's kind of a big deal at my age.) After his son was born, we moved 1000 miles away to be closer to his son. After 2 months, I found out that he had kissed her and had been flirting with other girls. Considering this simply a minor offense, I decided to move back home and work things out long-distance. After 6 months of things looking up, we decided to try again. So I moved back down south and we started again. A month and a half later, I found out B had been consistently sleeping with J. Even two weeks after I had just moved back. Deciding to give it ONE more chance (I still don't know why, exactly) we argued and yelled and started to try AGAIN. Just tonight, I found out that he had seen a DIFFERENT ex and nothing happened, but he emailed her nine days ago, telling her he misses her, he still loves her, he wishes they could be together.
I don't understand how a human being could consistently do this. Every time this happens, I get yelled at for snooping, for not trusting him, and he somehow manages to make me feel guilty. I know I need to get out, but I don't know how. I don't have a lot of money, I don't have any family down here, and my friends are still new, and barely more than acquaintances. Help? Please?
I don't understand how a human being could consistently do this. Every time this happens, I get yelled at for snooping, for not trusting him, and he somehow manages to make me feel guilty. I know I need to get out, but I don't know how. I don't have a lot of money, I don't have any family down here, and my friends are still new, and barely more than acquaintances. Help? Please?