I just recently met this guy at my birthday party a 3 weeks ago, he was invited by a friend of my sisters, and as soon as we were introduced I was attracted to him instantly, and we made eye contact. He sat next to me and we talked to each other about music and whatever, just making conversation. We were at a club and he kept leaving the table and then coming back to it to talk to me for a few more minutes and then he would leave again... I got up and left to go to the restroom and while I was gone my sister told him that I was attracted to him so he offered his number to her to give to me. I was excited that he offered his number and told my sister that she should give my number to him and so she did... when we were leaving I made it a point to go up to him and tell him that I was glad to meet him and he told me that my sister gave him my number so I told him he can call me or text me if he wanted to. Well that night we were up late texting each other and I let him know that I was interested in getting to know him more if he wanted to. He said yeah that he wanted to also. We hung out a few nights later, and he was a total gentleman, he actually kind of seemed like something was bothering him, so all we did was watch TV and talk a little bit. After I left he texted me and told me that he was sorry that he didn't know who to act around someone new, and that he wasn't sure what he thought about me yet, and that he was going threw a heartbreak the last 2 months and was trying to move on. We still text and sometimes talk on the phone and he's starting to open up and talk to me about his ex and what happened and that he doesn't want to get back with her but that she keeps messing with his head and its bringing him down... I tell him that I'm there for him if he just wants to talk about it and that I can relate to his situation since I had a similar situation... I also will ask him if he wants to go out and so something just to get his mind off things and he always has an excuse, so I just tell him that if he changes his mind to give me a call. The other night I got a text from him at 3 in the morning and he seemed upset and said he was out driving around so I asked him to come by my house and we would talk, so he did... we sat out in his truck for 5 hrs just talking and listening to music, and at times he would look at me and grab onto my hand and hold it for a few minutes and then let it go, he did that many times throughout the night, so he knows that I really like him, but I'm not sure if he feels the same way or not, since that night I haven't heard from him and I call him and he doesn't answer his phone, so I'm worried and thinking that maybe he realized he doesn't like me like I do him. What should I do? Do you think that in time we can be together?

Sure seems like it, try making the first move that allways helps, it would probubly boost his confedence, it really sounds like he wants to be with you, he's just dealing with some bs, every one has to deal with bs, some people deal with it diferently then others, take me for example, today, my gfs ex boyfriend, who is also one of her friends she hangs out with, and that means I do to, he was calling my girlfriend a slut, well, I punched him in the face, normally the way I deal with bs, gets me in trouble, but what fun is life if you can't have some fun dealing with bs right, well, he may deal with bs differently, less full on then me, normally I'd call him a nancy boy, but, he seems to deal with bs more maturley then I do, still, in a little nancy boy way, but, more sudle than me

so im worried and thinking that maybe he realized he doesnt like me like i do him. what should i do? do u think that in time we can be together?Yes, as long as you don't run ahead of things in your mind. You've just met. It may not go anywhere, and that's OK, too. No harm, no foul if you two don't end up dating.

But you might. Don't fret it. Drop him voice messages and a text or two, then go back to your life and other things. No need to put your life on hold for someone who may not be ready/interested in anything right now.

And if not, it probably has nothing to do with you, so again, fretting about it pointless. Just occasional contact until he comes around, or you find a more promising prospect in someone else.

It's OK either way.