squeezplay
Dec 26, 2008, 01:46 PM
I don't know if this is in the correct category. Ill give it a shot, How do you get over things that are bothering you?
To make a long story short I dated a girl for 3 years, We broke up and 5 months later she came to me and wants to work things out. She admitted to sleeping with an ex boyfriend and another person that goes to school with her. I didn't sleep with anyone but I was sexually intimate with 3 other girls. So I told her the truth that I haven't slept with anyone else. I was not shocked to hear about the ex boyfriend because he was always trying something and wanted in her pants. We were each others first. But it's the other kid that is making me loose sleep. I didn't want to know his name or anything about him. All I knew is his age and where he goes to school. She told me I had a conversation with him when I was suposably Intoxicated at UALBANY, She told me I asked him if he ever put a girl on his car, She knows this because she was on the phone with him while I was talking to him as well. Weird rite? Any way I slept over her place last night and I'm leaving making a left out of her community thinking about this boy because I stupidly brought it up and she said who Adam? So now I have a name. Anyway leaving the community and a black altima coupe rolls up next to me. That's when everything hit me. I saw that black coupe in Albany at my brother house at his party. And I remember that theirs a kid named Adam that goes to her school with that same car, I also installed a grille in my friend matt's black altima coupe. She probably herd me saying have you ever put a grille on your car no have you ever put a girl on that car. So now its all clear and I unfortunately know who it was. I didn't want to find out but with her droping the name and the little bits of info I unconsciously solved it. Now all I can think of is him and her and if I'm going to work on a relationship with this girl again I need him out of my head. We've come along way. Were sexual intimate again, were fixing problems and hope to be together again but its hard knowing this kid for some reason makes me upset. Ive spoken to her about this and she's rite when she says we weren't dating but it still bothers me. What do I do? Should I bring it up with her or what? How can I move past it. I know the past is the past and I can't change that but it bothers me so id like it outa my head for once and all. On a side note I slept with my ex girlfriend as well as another girl. Thought it would make me feel better, But it was so childish and really hasent made me feel anybetter. I can temparaly block it out of my head when I say to myself it doesent matter, she said it was a mistake and if she could she would take it back and how it meant nothing to her and the feeling we have when we kiss means more then anything any other person could make her feel and knowing that she's here with me makes me forget and feel better for a moment but then I'm back to upset. She doesent know I'm upset of course.
Please help, thanks for reading!
To make a long story short I dated a girl for 3 years, We broke up and 5 months later she came to me and wants to work things out. She admitted to sleeping with an ex boyfriend and another person that goes to school with her. I didn't sleep with anyone but I was sexually intimate with 3 other girls. So I told her the truth that I haven't slept with anyone else. I was not shocked to hear about the ex boyfriend because he was always trying something and wanted in her pants. We were each others first. But it's the other kid that is making me loose sleep. I didn't want to know his name or anything about him. All I knew is his age and where he goes to school. She told me I had a conversation with him when I was suposably Intoxicated at UALBANY, She told me I asked him if he ever put a girl on his car, She knows this because she was on the phone with him while I was talking to him as well. Weird rite? Any way I slept over her place last night and I'm leaving making a left out of her community thinking about this boy because I stupidly brought it up and she said who Adam? So now I have a name. Anyway leaving the community and a black altima coupe rolls up next to me. That's when everything hit me. I saw that black coupe in Albany at my brother house at his party. And I remember that theirs a kid named Adam that goes to her school with that same car, I also installed a grille in my friend matt's black altima coupe. She probably herd me saying have you ever put a grille on your car no have you ever put a girl on that car. So now its all clear and I unfortunately know who it was. I didn't want to find out but with her droping the name and the little bits of info I unconsciously solved it. Now all I can think of is him and her and if I'm going to work on a relationship with this girl again I need him out of my head. We've come along way. Were sexual intimate again, were fixing problems and hope to be together again but its hard knowing this kid for some reason makes me upset. Ive spoken to her about this and she's rite when she says we weren't dating but it still bothers me. What do I do? Should I bring it up with her or what? How can I move past it. I know the past is the past and I can't change that but it bothers me so id like it outa my head for once and all. On a side note I slept with my ex girlfriend as well as another girl. Thought it would make me feel better, But it was so childish and really hasent made me feel anybetter. I can temparaly block it out of my head when I say to myself it doesent matter, she said it was a mistake and if she could she would take it back and how it meant nothing to her and the feeling we have when we kiss means more then anything any other person could make her feel and knowing that she's here with me makes me forget and feel better for a moment but then I'm back to upset. She doesent know I'm upset of course.
Please help, thanks for reading!