roxy422505
Dec 26, 2008, 12:18 PM
So my ex boyfriend and I were together for over 3 years, for the last 6 months we started fighting about everyhting, even the little things, things got kind of unbearable for both of us but we kept coming back together and there was love for sure.
3 months ago he breaks up with me after a stupid fight and I realized I couldn't live breaking up and going back together every time we got into a fight so I decided that was it I had to get some time off to figure what to do, so I didn't take his calls. A week after I heard from a friend from work that he had been calling her and asking her out, he called her my princess and all that kind of stuff that lets you know that he definitelly wanted something else out of that girl, thankfully that girl came straight to me and told me everything so he didn't get his way with her. When I heard that I just freaked out, that same day he found out that I knew, since then I swor to myself I wasn't going to get back with him cause I was never going to be able to trust him, I mean he tried to hook up with a friend, there should be a code for that or something.
So when he found out that I knew he apologized, cried, ask for me to get back with him and all the stuff men does after messing up.
After a while and all the rejection he kind of stopped begging or apologizing, he stills calls from time to time but just to see how I'm doing and I just shot him off ( I just feel like I have to cut all ties if I want to get over him) but for a couple of days I ve been having the feeling that he's with someone else and two days ago I confronted him and he accepted it, it just crashed my world one more time, he said that she's someone who "entertains" him and that he can't be alone, and that he loves me and If I let him know that there's even a small chance for us to get back together he will dump her and be alone just to wait for me.
I don't believe him anymore, I also think that If I can't trust someone there's no point on being together, but I love him, and miss him, and this news just messed up my world, I was doing better but now Im back hurting badly, what should I think? Or do?
3 months ago he breaks up with me after a stupid fight and I realized I couldn't live breaking up and going back together every time we got into a fight so I decided that was it I had to get some time off to figure what to do, so I didn't take his calls. A week after I heard from a friend from work that he had been calling her and asking her out, he called her my princess and all that kind of stuff that lets you know that he definitelly wanted something else out of that girl, thankfully that girl came straight to me and told me everything so he didn't get his way with her. When I heard that I just freaked out, that same day he found out that I knew, since then I swor to myself I wasn't going to get back with him cause I was never going to be able to trust him, I mean he tried to hook up with a friend, there should be a code for that or something.
So when he found out that I knew he apologized, cried, ask for me to get back with him and all the stuff men does after messing up.
After a while and all the rejection he kind of stopped begging or apologizing, he stills calls from time to time but just to see how I'm doing and I just shot him off ( I just feel like I have to cut all ties if I want to get over him) but for a couple of days I ve been having the feeling that he's with someone else and two days ago I confronted him and he accepted it, it just crashed my world one more time, he said that she's someone who "entertains" him and that he can't be alone, and that he loves me and If I let him know that there's even a small chance for us to get back together he will dump her and be alone just to wait for me.
I don't believe him anymore, I also think that If I can't trust someone there's no point on being together, but I love him, and miss him, and this news just messed up my world, I was doing better but now Im back hurting badly, what should I think? Or do?