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LacieBugz
Dec 25, 2008, 08:53 PM
Well I have been dating this guy for over 2 years and He wants to move further than a hug like making out and all that crap. But I told Him "I dont want to make out with you if it's not for real..." he got really pissed but he said he under stands now every time I see him at school he wants to makw out... Should I believe it's the real deal or Just make out with him without care?:confused:

simoneaugie
Dec 25, 2008, 09:07 PM
Why does he want to make out? A few trial basis, closed mouthed kisses in private would be okay, if you're willing. Then you two need to talk about what kissing and hugging means to each of you. How do you each perceive it?

Making out with him at school where others can see you? Is he trying to prove something? It's pretty natural for a guy his age to want others to see. What do you mean "if it's not for real?"

Hugging and kissing are doled out differently in different families. Some families never hug or kiss. When a person is that close to you, body odors, chemical signatures and touches are exchanged. Some are more comfortable with it than others.

Fr_Chuck
Dec 25, 2008, 10:34 PM
Kissing and hugging and even sex means different things to different people, to some it is something to do on a Friday night with the first person they can find. To others it has a lot more meaning.

So yes it is fair to expect him to explain where what he believes