stars_shine76
Dec 25, 2008, 11:12 AM
Assalam alaikum.
I'm in deep trouble. Can you please help me out. I am a muslim lady and want to ask question To Dr. Zakir Naik Islamic I had my nikah last year and rukhsati was scheduled to take place this year. Because of misunderstading between us I have ask for divorce before rukhsati my husband divorce me. My question is.. since we had No physical relations, can we remarry and since my rukhsati didn't take place I'm in my parents house since start.
Please help me
Thanks & Regard
Fr_Chuck
Dec 25, 2008, 01:02 PM
Moved to ISLAM,
Since this is more from a religious standpoint,
firmbeliever
Dec 26, 2008, 11:54 AM
Assalaam alaikum stars-shine,
The questions you post here will be answered by the members of this forum.
If you wish to ask Dr.Zakir Naik directly,please contact the Islamic Research Foundation.
Welcome To Islamic Research Foundation! (http://www.irf.net/irf/main.htm)
Regarding your query, maybe you could try sending your question to IslamQA and Insha Allah,they will be able to provide the best answer as per the unique situation you are in.
Islam Question and Answer (http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/islamqapages/4)
Wa alaikum salaam
EDITED TO ADD:::
I found an answer to a similar query, hope this helps you in your current situation.
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http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/70242/second%20marriage%20and%20consent%20of%20Wali
"If a man divorces his wife before consummating the marriage, then she is completely divorced as a result, therefore he cannot take her back, and she does not have to observe any 'iddah. But there is nothing wrong with him proposing to her a second time and marrying her, if she and her guardian agree to that, with a new contract and a new mahr. "
"If your family do not think that this person is suitable for you, then you should obey your family, especially since you agree that they have reasons for adopting this stance. As for the fact that you feel some attachment to him, this is something natural that happens between a woman and her husband, but if Allaah gives you another husband you will love him in sha Allaah. Marriage is for life, and cannot be based only on emotions. Hence the wisdom of sharee'ah dictates that the approval of the woman's guardian (wali) is essential, because women are weak and easily swayed by emotions, and may yield their rights or be impressed by someone who impresses them even if he is not suitable. So follow your parent's wishes, for they are more far-sighted than you, and do not put pressure on them to accept this man, if he proposes to you again. "
"It is clear to you that the approval of the woman's wali is essential for the marriage to be valid, so marrying this man again will never be valid without your father's consent. Right now you are a non-mahram to this man, so there is no way you can form a relationship with him, because you are no longer his wife at present.
You should occupy yourself with that which will benefit you, and do not think about the past, until Allaah grants you a righteous husband. Do not go ahead and marry anyone until after you have asked about him and are confident about his religious commitment and good character. Let the past be a lesson to you, and praise Allaah that you found out about this husband's faults before you consummated the marriage and moved in with him.
We ask Allaah to help and guide you.
And Allaah knows best."
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