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unknown624
Dec 24, 2008, 12:22 PM
Hi. You guys probably think I have a lot of problems. Lol

Here is my question:

I was dating a guy (George, not actual name). We dated for 11 months, and we just recently broke up last month. Then, a couple weeks after we broke up, I met (Aaron, not actual name). Aaron and I started talking, and pretty soon we were dating. After two weeks of dating, he had already said "I love you". I thought this was a bit fast, but I really really like him. Meanwhile, George had been thinking "I didn't actually break up with her (me). I just told her I didn't want to be serious." And he started talking to me too. He invited me over to his house. We kissed. I knew it was wrong the whole time. But Aaron, he's older. He is in university. Next month, I will barely be able to see him because of his new courses and such. A still have a lot of feelings for George. He told me I was the only girl he'd ever want. At the same time, Aaron was telling me the same thing.

So pretty much, I'm in a big love triangle.
Aaron does not know about my feelings for George.
George does not know I'm dating Aaron.
I like them both very much, but I know I can not have them both.

What do I do?! :(

If any of this does not make sense don't be afraid to ask =)

450donn
Dec 24, 2008, 12:31 PM
After an 11 month relationship you need to get your head and heart back in order. I would suggest that you not date for a minimum of six months. Give yourself time to heal.

talaniman
Dec 24, 2008, 03:55 PM
Stay single, and you can talk to them both, and date who you please. Just don't play games and lie. And no sex.