mystery2008
Dec 21, 2008, 01:08 PM
OK so I met a guy - online... spoke to him for a few months casually then one day he gave me his number as he said he wouldn't be online much.
I didn't really think much of it - just thought he was being very forward.
I was at work and really bored and I decided to text him and say hello and that I got his message... we continued to send textes all through out the day and the next day and the next day etc... he would text me in the morning ask me how I am all day and before I went bed...
I deicded to playfully ask him when he was coming to take me for a drink - and 2 weeks later he was on his way to see me (him living about 180 miles away)
Anyway - he was on his way down and I went to my xmas work do... when he arrived he asked me if I wanted to go back to my xmas work do - in which we did... he met my colleagues and they seemed to like him.
We went back to mines and had a few more drinks - then sex, then more sex and topped it off with more sex times 2 in the morning.
I was kind of hating myself at this point thinking I didn't really know him - but it felt so right but then wondered if he would still continue to text me all the time or even come back and see me.
Before he came down he told me he was casually seeing a girl that lived in his home town but it wasn't serious and she was not his girlfriend
Anyway he went home and I was very surprised as he texted me the whole way home and still continues to text me all day everyday a week a bit later... I think I like this guy but wonder if it makes sense liking him any further
He texted me the other night and said he might not be able to talk as it might be tricky (bearing in mind the day before I told him I was going out to my ex'es mothers party)
I asked him what tricky meant and he said that he was going to see the girl he had casual sex with but he didn't end up going - that reminded me why I shouldn't get involved. I expressed how I felt and that was that I am a very jealous person and that even though he told me about this girl before he came to see me and before anything happened between us - its not something I could handle -
He told me he wouldn't do anything like that again (let me know when he is going to see her) but that's not the point - the whole point is - he is having his cake and eating it - I can't ask for a commitment because I hardly know him and he told me about this girl before... but I don't think I can handle it
What can I say or do as he is obviously going to carry on seeing this girl - I know about HER but its obvious she doesn't know about me
Is there anything I can do or say - I was thinking to say - when he knows what he wants (without me sounding like its ultimatum time) then I'll be listening... I can't bear the fact that she lives so close and he can see her at anytime and I woudlnt know about it
He says he's coming to see me after christmas to spend the weekend with me and that he really likes me from what he knows about me and he really enjoyed being with me
AM CONFUSED - CAN SOMEONE PLEASE SUGGEST SOMETHING :eek:
I didn't really think much of it - just thought he was being very forward.
I was at work and really bored and I decided to text him and say hello and that I got his message... we continued to send textes all through out the day and the next day and the next day etc... he would text me in the morning ask me how I am all day and before I went bed...
I deicded to playfully ask him when he was coming to take me for a drink - and 2 weeks later he was on his way to see me (him living about 180 miles away)
Anyway - he was on his way down and I went to my xmas work do... when he arrived he asked me if I wanted to go back to my xmas work do - in which we did... he met my colleagues and they seemed to like him.
We went back to mines and had a few more drinks - then sex, then more sex and topped it off with more sex times 2 in the morning.
I was kind of hating myself at this point thinking I didn't really know him - but it felt so right but then wondered if he would still continue to text me all the time or even come back and see me.
Before he came down he told me he was casually seeing a girl that lived in his home town but it wasn't serious and she was not his girlfriend
Anyway he went home and I was very surprised as he texted me the whole way home and still continues to text me all day everyday a week a bit later... I think I like this guy but wonder if it makes sense liking him any further
He texted me the other night and said he might not be able to talk as it might be tricky (bearing in mind the day before I told him I was going out to my ex'es mothers party)
I asked him what tricky meant and he said that he was going to see the girl he had casual sex with but he didn't end up going - that reminded me why I shouldn't get involved. I expressed how I felt and that was that I am a very jealous person and that even though he told me about this girl before he came to see me and before anything happened between us - its not something I could handle -
He told me he wouldn't do anything like that again (let me know when he is going to see her) but that's not the point - the whole point is - he is having his cake and eating it - I can't ask for a commitment because I hardly know him and he told me about this girl before... but I don't think I can handle it
What can I say or do as he is obviously going to carry on seeing this girl - I know about HER but its obvious she doesn't know about me
Is there anything I can do or say - I was thinking to say - when he knows what he wants (without me sounding like its ultimatum time) then I'll be listening... I can't bear the fact that she lives so close and he can see her at anytime and I woudlnt know about it
He says he's coming to see me after christmas to spend the weekend with me and that he really likes me from what he knows about me and he really enjoyed being with me
AM CONFUSED - CAN SOMEONE PLEASE SUGGEST SOMETHING :eek: