Hai
I'm a college student
I am younger than many of my class mates
I want to know what relation some girls(class mates) have with me (based on their conversations and other behaviors)
First one is my classmate and 2 yrs olderdan me
Let us call her stell
Stell talks to me in a shyfull manner( not like this with others)
But when I give miss calls or messages sometimes she responds spontaneously but some times does not!
I think she is interested to talk with me
But I keep somedistance(even I don't know why)
I am also interested to talk
She is good looking
Some one else has a crush on her
She doesnot like him
What relation does she have with me a friend,specialfriend or..
I'm asking this because many of my friends say that many girks had crush on them
They came to know about this by the help of friends
I during my school days was shy and seldome talked to girls
I think some one had crussh on mee too
But I have no way to know or check that
Please help me

Have you taken a college level English class yet? :) I am joking, but I couldn't resist.

With "Stell," don't be as distant. Do not be afraid to be friends with her. Don't play games because there is nothing secret about relationships. We all figure out how it works through trial and error.

After class one day ask her if she wants to get something to eat. Worst thing that can happen is she says no. But you'll never know until you try.

Yeah asking to have lunch together is a good start.

A meal is a good start! And like spitvenom said... the worst thing that can happen is a no... and besides if you don't try you'll never know what could happen! (its like the lottery, if you don't buy a ticket, you know for sure you can't win)

The distance thing, might just be her way of not being pushy, or not wanting to risk losing... just like you seem to be doing.