Tobiee
Dec 18, 2008, 02:05 AM
I am have these guy who is renting a flat 15 minutes away from my work.
He is got another galfrend but he told me his gal is staying very far in another province.
But my problem with him is that he doesn't want me to come to his place.
The last time I was there I forced to come inside and there was nothing strange but he said the reason he doesn't want me there is becoz his flats mates knows the other gal and he doesn't want them to know a second gal.
One day he let me took a taxi a night,very late alone becoz he said he doesn't want me to go to his house.
He followed me with a car,even the taxi driver was worried why I am taking a taxi these late but that guy said NO I cannot come to his house
And he is even willing to end our relationship that letting me in his house.
When he is with at my place,he is alwys on his phone with these other gal and saying all the goodnites that he doesn't say to me.
But he claims he loves me.
When I approach him about stuff he doesn't want to speak.He just say "I am not ging to answer" and he let me talk alone and say no answer to my questions.
I don't understand these guy.he alwys goes out with his friends(male friens I am told) to fancy places but he doesn't want to go with me.
He said he enjoys spending time with his friend without a lady.
If I want us to go out I have to force and he will treat me so badly ,shout at me and do lots of stuff to me.
I am in love with these guy but he is hurting me so deeply and I believe he has so many secrets that I don't know about.
I tried so may times breaking up with him but he comes back and I do forgive hime verytime.
He says I am stressing hima and I am going to give him heart attack and I think he is going to give me one.
What can I do in these situation?
I am so hurt.
He is got another galfrend but he told me his gal is staying very far in another province.
But my problem with him is that he doesn't want me to come to his place.
The last time I was there I forced to come inside and there was nothing strange but he said the reason he doesn't want me there is becoz his flats mates knows the other gal and he doesn't want them to know a second gal.
One day he let me took a taxi a night,very late alone becoz he said he doesn't want me to go to his house.
He followed me with a car,even the taxi driver was worried why I am taking a taxi these late but that guy said NO I cannot come to his house
And he is even willing to end our relationship that letting me in his house.
When he is with at my place,he is alwys on his phone with these other gal and saying all the goodnites that he doesn't say to me.
But he claims he loves me.
When I approach him about stuff he doesn't want to speak.He just say "I am not ging to answer" and he let me talk alone and say no answer to my questions.
I don't understand these guy.he alwys goes out with his friends(male friens I am told) to fancy places but he doesn't want to go with me.
He said he enjoys spending time with his friend without a lady.
If I want us to go out I have to force and he will treat me so badly ,shout at me and do lots of stuff to me.
I am in love with these guy but he is hurting me so deeply and I believe he has so many secrets that I don't know about.
I tried so may times breaking up with him but he comes back and I do forgive hime verytime.
He says I am stressing hima and I am going to give him heart attack and I think he is going to give me one.
What can I do in these situation?
I am so hurt.