My girlfriend and I recently split up. She left her two dog's with me. I have room for them (a Bull Mastiff and an Akita), she doesn't. The dogs are the only tie that binds us right now. I know have to give her time and space, but the canines are an issue. They are the tie that still binds. I love the dog's to death, but..?

Suggestions, anyone ?

Raise the rent on the kennel. Seriously, what's the agreement, or is it something to give her a reason to comeback?

It's been an unspoken understanding. She moved out a year ago, we kept dating. Now we aren't. Thanks, I thought I should do what you suggest, but this will make the recent hard feelin's worse.

Dude, she moved out a year ago?? I'm sorry but she's been using you for a year. I am a dog lover myself, and if she gave them to you that's one thing, but she's set this up so that she could have a constant tie to you, with something you love and would never hurth, while she plays around and see what's out there. You need to call her now, not tomorrow or the next day, but right now and tell her to come get her dogs or raise the rent as Tal stated, and let her know. She's playing games with you, and you have to end the game immediately.

I emailed. Didn't call. U B Right..

Thanks

Why did you email? She's used you for a year, this demands a phone call, and a stern one at that. Put your foot down.

Dude,

She monitors the calls and doesn't answer the F'n phone.

I tried that. She's got the mail. If I don't get a response I'm slippin' into her private condo w/ the dog's and am knockin', then leavin' them in the hallway.

That sucks, but that's reality... Right ?

Thanks for you input...